How to Recognize a Narcissist before they Attack | Pay Attention to the People Who Don't Clap when you Win | The Joker with white words all over his face with a black back ground

How to Recognize a Narcissist Before they Attack and Win at Life!

Pay Attention to the People Who Don't Clap when you Win | The Joker

If they're not Cheering for you They Don't Love You!

For Some Reason we simply don't want to see that the Very People who Hate us are our very Own Friends and Family! In fact it usually "IS" your very Friends  and Family and Close one's who don't want you to succeed!

And you know what? That's okay! Fuck em!

Most people don't want to hear this truth to the extent that they put up with a Life time of Suffering, by these very same people again and again and again, Hoping One day it will all change and they will express and show their Love! 

They won't!

Fact is, if someone isn't Jumping up and down when you Win, Celebrating for you and with you, they simply do not Love you and I guarantee you, they will not only wish you harm but will cause harm to you directly or indirectly by turning people against you or worse!

Get away from these people!!! It's the only way your life will ever improve! And that's what they don't want for you!

Until you come to your very own Honest Truth with yourself about the people you surround yourself with, you will suffer til the end of your days on this planet!

But it doesn't have to be this way! You can change all of this into a much Happier and more enjoyable experience here on this planet. The Choice is up to you! 

And that choice is simply to be so unbelievably Raw and Honest with YOU!!! Yes, Completely Honest with the Real You Inside to the point of finally taking your own side and seeing the Horrors that have been laid upon you and your life by total strangers, your friends, family, anyone!

The Truth of Life is Ugly but Very, Very Powerful and will Transform your Life once you Embrace it!

And like a Beautiful Monarch Butterfly will Transform you from a Struggling Caterpillar to a Beautiful, Powerful Butterfly that literally can and will Rise above all the Hurt, Pain and Suffering into the Beautiful Sky!

Even the Great Muhammad Ali Said, "Float like a Butterfly and Sting like a Bee!"

All you have to do is be willing to never, ever, ever let anyone disrespect you, talk behind your back and cut all bait! Meaning cut all and everyone who are like this to you! 

Once you cut all the hurtful, mean, negative people out of your life, suddenly you begin to almost float, things become easier, you start meeting better people, more supportive, kind, loving people... Your life will transform!

How Ugly is the  Truth?

Well, in High School I was the Co Captain of our Team in Football.

And we won the Section Championships! At the time it was the highest accolade you could win in our state! 

Immediately after the last play the crowd Stormed the field. It was more than a packed house. 10,000+ people storming the field of a stadium that was built to hold 5,000 Maximum!

Everyone was jumping up and down, hugging, crying, laughing, screaming, yelling, you name it! The Wrestling Coach came up to me with a Big Ole Smile, hugged me laughed and said, "You did good! You all did!"

Suddenly his eyes turned to a lost and confused look... he said, "Hey! What's wrong with your family? Where are they going? Why aren't they over here celebrating with you, hugging and kissing you?" I turned around and looked. And they all had their heads hung low like someone just died. They looked so sad like we just lost WWII...

My coach said, "Somethings wrong with your family." I didn't think anything of it until I saw this image above with the Joker saying, "Pay Close Attention to the people who don't clap when you win." 

At the time it caught me off guard but there was so much pandemonium in the stadium with everyone yelling and screaming that I didn't think much of it... I got caught up with the Crowd... 

My Former Coach Jacob "Stitch" Duran | American Kickboxer

I was an American KickBoxer 

A few Years Later I was fighting in a Kickboxing Match for a #1 Ranking for the United States Middle Weight Title in Kickboxing! I won the Fight with a Unanimous Decision! 

We were all in the back Hallway Celebrating, the crowd was walking by, Clapping, Shouting. My coach and teammates were all hugging and clapping and celebrating! It was one of the Happiest days of my Life! 

My Coach and Cut Man, see above image, Jacob "Stitch" Duran and I were sitting in chairs facing each other as he was cutting off my hand wraps. He was facing past me to the crowd of people walking by saying, "Congratulations" and my teammates were behind him where we warmed up for the fight!

Suddenly he went from Smiling to almost a Stone Cold, Stern look and said out of no where, "Hey Mikey? Did someone die?" I laughed, thinking it was a joke I didn't understand, and said, "What? What are you talking about?" He said, "Seriously? Did someone die in your family?" I said, "No! What in the hell are you talking about?" He said, "Turn around?"

As I turned around my Family was walking by with their heads hung low, literally... Stitch Said, "Why are they so upset? Why aren't they over here celebrating with you, they look like someone just died!" I said, "I don't know." Stitch said, "Somethings Wrong with your Family! They should be over here hugging and kissing you and Celebrating with you!" 

My point? "Get away from anyone who doesn't Celebrate and clap when you win! PERIOD!!!!"

People who don't' celebrate your victories, literally hate you and will try to Destroy  you!

Wake up so you can Get away from these Horrible People so you can Move Forward and Live a Productive and Awesome life!

That's why I do this work! 

So you Can Win at Dating, Relationships and Life!

God Bless you All



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