"Why won't he Love me?"
"Because he doesn't know how!!"
He's Doing everything in his Power to Love you!!! He Really is!! But No Matter what he does to Love you, he simply can't win!!!! He's spent an entire life time trying to express his Love with all his heart and all his soul....
Year after year, Birthday after Birthday, Christmas after Christmas it's all hurt and emotional pain for him! He spends all his money, all his effort and energy into buying you things, giving you things, making you things, doing things for you!!! He so badly wants to be Loved by you and wants you to Feel his Love inside!
But he simply Can't because He doesn't know how!!! And that's what you are missing!!!!!
Yes!! Yes!!! You are Correct and Right about a lot of things!! Like, "Our Communication Sucks!"
Women are highly, highly aware that something is missing in communication between men and women!!! But you just don't quite know what!
We are having major challenges in Communication!! And he looks at you and says something like, "What are you talking about? I speak perfect english!!"
Yes, you can laugh now! Because you and I both know, that's not what you are talking about at all!
You are not talking about Logical Communication. You are not talking about perfect english as in proper grammar! Far from it!
You are talking about a Deeper, more Mentally Stimulating and Emotionally Fulfilling level of "Right Brain" communication!
"We are not Here to Survive! We are here to Thrive!"
Indirect body language and Communication
You are right! Men are Direct! The left brain the Male, Logical brain is the Direct brain. It says A and it Means A. That's it!
Now the Right, Female Brain is the Indirect brain. The Right Brain says A. but it doesn't mean A. at all. It means something else, B.! And this drives the male brain Nuts!!!
You know how some times you say A, but don't mean that? You mean something else? Well, he can't do that! His brain is designed to Literally take what you say for face value! Period!
In other words, to him, A. Means A.. That's it! There's not Deeper Meaning for him!!!
Again, Sometimes you say A. but you don't mean A., you mean something Deeper B. which his brain does not do but can learn how to do!
Now do you see a challenge in communication?
You are saying A. but meaning B. and his brain only Processes A. and he believes you actually mean A. but you mean B.! hahahahaha... 🤣🤣❤️💕
And then the Caveman Starts to Roar in Anger!!! "RAAAAAAAAA!" "Why don't women say what they mean????? Why do they always have to Speak in Code???? RAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!"
Note: The left, logical brain is the direct Brain. It says A. and it Means A.
The Right brains processors says A. but is alway looking for a deeper meaning or saying a deeper meaning! This simply is a very, very foreign concept to his brain!!!!
Do you understand?
"Once was blind, Now I see!"
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You know how it seems like he literally can't keep up or follow when you shift levels? Well... hahaha... he can't! But he can learn how!!
Well, here's what's going on. Men are stuck in their left, logical brain! So they process everything through this part of their brain.
So when you shift over to your right brain and begin to process and communicate in the right brains way, you say A. out of your right brain. And he takes those same exact words over to his left brain and processes them through the Logical processor and he hears B.. And no matter what you say, he really, really believes you are saying B..
See, the left brain processes communication through logic. Where the right brain processes communication and body language through the "Emotional Processor" or the 5 senses! The Right brain is directly connected to the 5 senses which acts as an emotional filter!
See, when I ask men, "What are words?"
The Answer I invariably get is, "Words are words!" "Words are used to talk!" "Words are used to get the point across!"
As one Lady I was dating, who was at the session, when he said that, she literally turned, protected her heart/chest with her hands and cried out, "Noooo!!! Words are Emotions!!"
And this man with 3 Masters Degrees from Stanford, Berkeley and UCLA, 1 of the degrees in Communication, psychology an architecture, with a look of astonishment and confusing said, "Really???"
I said, "Yes, words are emotions because for her, when she's in her right brain she is processing communication, words and body language through the 5 senses / emotional processor. In other words, the words and communication and body language are being processed through an emotional filter and thus she is "Having an Emotional Experience through your communication!"
Yes, ladies, this is another thing I teach men how to do in my course!
I teach men how to Open up to their Right Brain to learn how to Speak the "Internal, Mentally Stimulating & Emotionally Fulfilling Language for Romance, Love & every day Clarity in Communication!"
Ok, so when men or women process communication through the logical left brain, it acts like a Filter of logic. So when words are processed through the logical left brain the words are literally filtered through logic, so he is not having an emotional experience at all. He is not feeling anything! In fact, he is having a logical experience, devoid of and disconnected from his feelings / emotions!
Ok, so when you are in your logical left brain he understands you.
But when you shift over to you right brain, this is when communication problems and challenges begin to rear their ugly head! And he is not on the same page / same level at all... Period!
Now, the challenge is, this, the right brain, is the Relationship brain. So Yes!!! He should be in this brain when he is in a relationship situation.
It's also the social brain. So he should learn how to open up to this side of his brain so he can be more social in social situations. Like Business gatherings, business parties or friends birthdays or parties or any situations outside of a work situation.
The Challenge is, most men most of the time use their linear, logical, business brain in social situations and can't figure out why no one wants to talk to them!
Answer: because in social situations that's not the time to be linear or logical or analytical. It makes people feel uncomfortable because this is the time to let your hair down, relax and open up!
"Honey I'm Home!!!"
And you say, "How was your Day Honey?" And his brain goes, "Houston we have a problem!"
Every man and I mean every man learns over time, this is "The Danger Zone!!!" Runnnnnnn!!!!!! 🤣❤️💕
So he says, "Oh well it was fine!" And you say, "Oh, ok, well how was it?"
Now he is thinking, "I just told you!" but he has learned not to say that cuz that causes fireworks. Believe it or not ladies but we men actually talk about this and why do women continually repeat the same question over and over and over?
So he again says, "Well I just told you, it was fine!"
Now your left brain is ok with this. But your Right brain is going crazy! It wants a Deeper meaning. In fact it's actually asking, "What does that mean?" Because the right brain was designed to always look for deeper meaning! So it continually asks, "What does that mean or what's a deeper more spiritual meaning of that?"
Again yes ladies, you are right, "It was fine!" is not complete communication at all. In fact it's closed and empty communication. And that's exactly how you feel isn't it? Empty! I mean the picture is blank. There's no details.
And I bet you are thinking, "Why won't he tell me? What's he hiding?"
So you, dig your heals in and ask again with more determination and more emphasis, "Well how was it???" And he flips out, raises his voice and says louder, "I just told you!!! What do you want, the details????"
And I step into the picture and say, "Yes!!! She needs the details because she wasn't there! She has no idea what happened or how it made you feel inside!!!!"
And I bet right about here you are feeling or asking, "Why won't he Love me?" as he walks away into the kitchen to make a sandwich and then goes into the living room to watch TV!
See, in his mind, believe it or not he gave your complete, complete communication and can't for the life of him figure out why you keep prying asking questions!
See, we communicate and process communication so differently that he has no clue that you literally can't feel what he's feeling in that moment. Because other men can and do!
I know, I know! There's more to this dilemma. But the Good News is, There really is an answer to all of this mess in communication and romance, Love and simply understanding each other and being on the same page!
Did I mention our mating systems are connected to 2 different parts of our brains and they have to completely, wildly different purposes? One is for Providing for the children the other is for Health!
So unconsciously he tries to turn you on in the external, disconnected way because that's the way he is turned on!
Mother Nature wired us for 2 completely different reasons when it comes to Mating and producing children. And that's why he doesn't know how to Romance you and turn you on in the way you desire in the Female way!
Yep! He can learn how! That's what my course is for! Not this course, "Why Men Just don't get it!" That's for you! His course is "Crack The Female Code!"
I also teach men how to Open up and be more "Internal" and so he can be more Emotionally Grounded so you can relax and feel emotionally grounded with him too...
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This Pain and Suffering in Relationships is not a one sided thing!
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If I could just take you for just 1 day and put you inside a man's Mind, Heart and Body so you can experience what it's like to be a man just merely attempting to understand a woman let alone trying to make her happy or attempt to Love her. And every time you do, to be yelled at or only to see her cry and walk away or be told, "You don't Love me!!!!" every time you try to Love her!! Then you would Understand what's going on between men and women!
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The Battle you have been fighting is all due to the fact we are neurologically wired in the complete & opposite Direction for:
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