My Story

Handsome Professional Man in Black Kiton Dress Jacket and White Kiton Dress Shirt

Elite Dating & Relationship Coach

Hi, I'm Mike Kollin - Your Guide & Coach
I’m an Elite Dating and Relationship Coach that specializes in communication between men and women.

Our Mission: Helping Men and Women Learn how to Love and Understand each other!


"Born & Raised in Napa Valley Wine Country"

Napa Valley Vineyards | Elite Dating, Relationship and Marriage Coaching

Graduated from Vintage High School of Napa, Ca., I was deeply and proudly involved in Athletics, Music, Art, and the student body and later attended and wrestled at Chico State and transferred to Arizona State. “Go Sun Devils!”

I have over 250 Relatives in Napa Valley and Sonoma!

I was born & Raised in a family of 7 siblings with 2 restaurants. Growing up with 4 brothers and 2 sisters taught me a powerful work ethic, which has carried through my entire life. Teaching me to always strive to be the very best in everything I do.

This has lead me to win numerous State and National Championships in Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling, Football, and Art. And to writing my books "Crack The Female Code" & "Why Men Just Don't Get It".

Dating & Relationship Coaching Advice | Napa Valley


My Story Starts Here 

A Uniquely Powerful & Painful Journey that Opened the Doors to Understanding Myself & My New Discoveries in Romance, Love & Understanding!

As a child growing up, I was the highly competitive and overachieving sibling. I put my heart and soul into everything I did. Winning a few State and National titles all the while getting straight A's in school for years, it seems there was nothing I couldn't do!
I always had Big Goals, Directions, and I always Knew where I was going in life! And then somewhere along the line there was a tragic turn that destroyed everything. I lost sight, lost my direction, and I lost myself. And that is how and where I found myself through a deep inward journey of meditating for 12 years every day until I found myself and in turn made the discovery of a life time. To this day I still meditate.

The Journey was a long Journey where I began to meditate at a very young age of 19, where eventually I had an amazing Awakening Experience just days to a week after my 28th birthday!

I flew to from the west coast to the east cost and back going to Hawaii all the way back to Pennsylvania to Sunny California Crossing the country studying with the Greats from Tony Robbins to Dr. Richard Bandler to Buddha Kham and Uncle George Naopi and many, many more Great Teachers I have had the opportunity to learn from and study under.

My life was an unbearably painful journey for a long time, especially in the Dating and Relationship Area. I suffered like all men and women do in relationships because I simply did not know that I did not know, but due to perseverance, study, and a few unique meetings with individuals including a Buddhist Monk, this pain eventually led me, one way or another, to find these discoveries in which I will introduce, teach and train you in!

You will not find these teachings anywhere else or taught in the way I teach them! This is a uniquely Powerful course that changes lives and heals hearts through a greater understanding in Romance, Love and Communication.

Your Journey is just about to begin. 

It won't be easy at first but it will be worth it. What you are about to learn is going to change your life! 

I am looking forward to working with you for a much better life, happiness and much greater understanding of yourself and the opposite sex!

This course is about you "Stepping into your Power!"

- Mike Kollin



Jacob "Stitch" Duran my former Coach & Cut Man

Notably one of my coaches, current Friend & Mentor, is the famous Jacob “Stitch” Duran, the #1 cut-man for the UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) & Top Ranked Boxing and World Champion Kick-Boxers, Who has also been in 5 block buster movies including 2 Rocky Movies!


Cut Man Jacob "Stitch" Duran UFC

Former Coach & Cut Man Jacob "Stitch" Duran


I have over 41 Certifications in the Arts of Psychology, NLP, Ericksonian Hypnosis, Time Line Therapy, HNLP, Energy Healing and Consciousness Training listed below! I am a Highly trained Personal Development Coach and Communication Expert!

And I have a Life time of Kicking Ass, Facing my Fears and Overcoming some of the most Intimidating Challenges that a person can go through!

"Step into your Power and Live an Awesome Life!"

I was also Licensed by the State of California’s Athletic Commission as a Professional Trainer and Corner Man for Professional Fighters.

I am an:

NLP Trainer
Master Ericksonian Hypnotherapist
Master Practitioner of Time Line Therapy
Master Practitioner of (HNLP) Humanistic Neuro-Linguistic Psychology
Trained and Certified in Huna, Reiki, Pranic Healing, and Energy Medicine

Trained and Certified by Tony Robbins – Sales Training, NAC, NLP

Some, but not all of my top trainers include:

Tony Robbins – Robbins Research International
Dr. Bob Bays, PHD. – Professor of Psychology of Syracuse University
Dr. Krazner, – A.I.H American Institute of Hypnotherapy
Dr. Tad James, M.S. PHD. – Advanced Neuro Energetics
John Overdurf, C.A.C. – Owner/Trainer Neuro-Energetics
Buddha Kham – Head Monk of All the Northern California Laotian Temples (R.I.P.)
Buddha Chandy - Head Monk of Richmond California Laotian Temple (R.I.P.)
Dr. Richard Bandler – Creator of NLP


"My knowledge and discoveries came a lot from Ericksonian Hypnosis and NLP at least in part. They allowed me to see the unconscious processes we all go through. And prepared me to see what Buddha Kham taught me about Understanding and Loving Women."

This is a Unique series of teachings that are only taught here.

See you soon at a seminar training or at a 1 on 1 coaching series.

– Mike Kollin


Call for a Consultation: 415 747 8598


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