WHAT'S THIS PICKUP ARTIST STUFF REALLY ALL ABOUT?

So what does it mean to be a Pickup Artist?

Well, a lot of guys think they are learning how to pick up on girls because they are horny or because they want to be cool or impress their buddies and or all of the above! But, but, what is this all really about? Well most of these guys, you, who read books on pickup, seduction, pickup artist, romance and dating tips for men are shocked when you get far down the path to learning how to meet the girl of your dreams. And its' actually a really cool thing! At first you learn all the lines in the world. Pickup lines, tricks, games and all kinds of cool tricks that can be even quite manipulative things to do and or say, which I don't really like...

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How to be a Pickup Artist

So you learn how to open a conversation, you learn what to say, what to do, how to turn your body and all of that... Then over time you learn there is actually a game and it's called, "THE GAME!" And then you start to see a part of what's really going on. And you find out, you don't really like this. And you realize that it was never your game or guys game. You start to realize, learn and see that "The Game" is the females game, not the guys game. In fact, it's you who have to learn her game...

So you start to get pissed off because this entire time, you always thought it was the guys playing or spittin game on the girls and how society makes single men look bad for doing this. Yet, you know as well as all the girls know, that if you are nice and polite and open doors and pay for dinners, you don't get a girlfriend. Or if you do get a girlfriend, she cheats on you with the guy whom everyone calls the jerk. Or, it's the jerks who get all the girls. And that my friends is a fact. And you know it... And then you start getting mad at the Jerks, at the girls and at society...

I mean, here you are a good guy. Paying for dinners, even though she makes almost double what you make. And you open doors even though she has 10 times more social power than you! And after a while, you feel like a sucker because she eats dinner, gives you a kiss on the cheek and then goes out with her girlfriends to meet all the jerks. And after a few years or more than a few years of this... you realize it's you who are the good guy and it's her and her and her who are all doing drugs, partying, having unprotected sex and sleeping around, cheating on you and a lot more...

Then you get pissed off! You've had it... and that's where it all starts! Your get some balls... yes, you finally say fuck it! I am done being the nice guy! I am done paying for dinner... She can pay for dinner you say... And then when she calls you up and says, "are we going to dinner?" You say, "NO! I am done paying for diner, I've had it!" And then she is stunned.. what is happening to her little boy? Is he finally going to put his foot down and tell me where to shove it? Is he finally getting some balls? And then you say, "I am sick and tired of paying for dinners and paying for flowers only for you to run off with your friends and have fun without me!" And then it happens... She apologizes... and now you are shocked...

I mean, this is the last thing you would ever think would happen... And then, she asks you if she can buy you dinner... She says, "I'll pay!" Now you are thinking, what the hell is going on? Wait? You mean by yelling at her and saying "NO!" She actually is being nice to me... So you go out and she adores you, kisses you, clasp your hands, intertwining her fingers with yours, in public... and she doesn't even notice the waiter who is 6'3", in perfect shape, athletic/muscular... she is totally focused on you! She then pays for the entire dinner and insists... and inside, you are looking at her, like, am I in the twilight zone? What the hell is going on here? Why is she being so damn nice to me... Why is she working so hard to please me?

So then she comes home with you and insists on giving you a full body massage... and you are like, "wait, whenever I ask her for a massage, she blows me off or gets mad or whines, or leaves with her friends..." "SO what's going on here?" And then it happens... she gives you a blow job and it all gets hot and heavy from there... She never gives you a blow job!!! She starts making wild passionate love to you... She does things that she's never done before... you are shocked, stunned... And then she curls up with you and clings to you and falls asleep in your arms... And you are like what the hell is going on? So you wake up and she has breakfast cooked, your favorite chocolate pancake with pink stripes...

And then you think... hmmm... I think I need to let go of the pink stripes.... and then you think, what the hell am I thinking... where did that thought come from? And then you hear a voice from down below say, "Your balls!!!" So then she runs off and cleans the kitchen, starts to vacuum and more.... So you realize, "Hey, wait a minute, this is a freaking dream"; until you get out of bed and stub your toe and are screaming from the pain only to find her run in to see if you are ok...

And then you ask her, "Is everything ok?" "Did someone die?" And then she giggles and says, "No silly!" "Why would you say that?" And then you say, "Because you are actually being nice to me!" "What's going on?" "Did someone put you up to this?" "Did you lose a bet?" And then she giggles again and says, "What are you talking about?" "I always treat you like this, you are my hunny bear?" And inside you are saying, "You have never treated me like this?" So then you lay back down and you start to day dream and ponder the amazing night and morning you just had with your girlfriend who has never been like that with you...

And then it pops into your head and you think, "wait a minute!" "Is she being nice to me because I got mad and yelled at her and said "No!"??? And then you hear a muted scream from down below and your balls say, "Yes, you freaking idiot!" "That's what I have been trying to tell you!" "She wants you to be the man and put your damn foot down already!" "Damn Fool!" So then you sit back and you are all on fire thinking, "No way, is this the secret to getting hot girls?" "Is this the secret to getting what you want from a relationship?" "Really?" "Holy shit!" "I've got to test this out!" So you figure, you have been the nice guy your entire life... and it never worked... to the point, you have spent every dime, opened every door, said "Excuse me, pardon, etc. etc." and you never got laid or only once in a while and then she would run off or turn away...

So you say, "Screw it!!!!" "I'm done being Mr. Nice guy!" And off you go into a world of saying, "NO!" "NO!" "NO!" And you find your magical power. You stopped letting people use you or make fun of you! You stopped putting up with rude people. You stopped letting people step on your toes and screw you over! You've had it and you are not putting up with peoples bullshit anymore! You start to get up and walk out on dinners, lunches and friends parties... And then suddenly people start to respect you and treat you better!

And the girls are all over you and want to be with you and win your heart... Now they treat you better and want you to marry them! Now you are the guy all the other guys envy! And then one day it hits you! You've become the jerk... except, wait a minute! You are not a jerk at all... you just have boundaries and self respect and don't let women take advantage of you! You make her carry her weight in the relationship now or you walk! And she knows it now and respects you for that! Wow! What a revelation.. who would have thought that having self respect is what it's all about! Yes, my friends, this is all about Self Respect and having Firm Boundaries! If you truly want to learn how to develop Self Respect and boundaries, then give me a call and let's put this into action so you can start Living Life to the Fullest!

Mike Kollin San Rafael, Napa, San Francisco and London 415 456 8558 

http://MikeKollin.com

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