Now, I literally mean that and mean it to the exact opposite! The way men approach women in the way that seems natural and normal to men actually scares and or angers women and is extremely intrusive. (And most, 90% of men are completely oblivious to this.) The way men try to Love women and express their love to her is actually the way men receive love and women can not receive love in this male fashion. More on that in another blog!

In fact, some to many dating tips on how to meet women or understand women from some of those pickup courses in large are usually absolutely wrong because they are teaching you tips and lines and openers which are all left brain, linear, push energy, the male brain, way of thinking and doing things! The male system, the way men are wired is the complete opposite of the way women want to be approached, picked up on and especially romanced. And that’s why all these guys taking pickup artist courses, learning dating tips and how to meet women just flat out does not work!!!

* And do you want to know why those courses make sense to you & seem real? Because they are left brained, male functioning courses, thus your brain instinctually likes it because they are designed for the male brain. But you’re trying to pick up on women right? And remember the female brain is the right brain!! And more importantly, her mating system is directly connected to her right brain!!! Are you hearing me???

If you are one of those guys who has taken all the pickup artist courses, read all the books on how to meet women and dating tips, then I think this simple understanding will suddenly shift your entire dating & relationship coaching experience!

* For example, if you have ever taken a pickup artist course or bought a home study course, the #1 rule they tell you, is to immediately approach a girl within 3 seconds or don’t approach at all. My thoughts on that? Helllllllllllll no!!!

This is the male way. The left male brain was designed to get things done right away in order to feed the caveman family. Thus men still think in terms of now, right now, which is the design of the left, step by step, linear brain. But she does not! Her Mating system is directly connected to her Non-Linear right brain so you need to learn how to communicate and process information in this way!  And this is why she gets mad and punishes you when you just walk up and try to talk to her using lines from the logical, step by step left brain. Did you survey the situation, see what’s going on, tune into her body language, did you even notice what’s she’s doing, whether she’s in a good mood or not??? Is she with a Boyfriend or husband??? Anything??? Or are you just blindly approaching???

The reason these guys tell you to approach within 3 seconds is so you won’t A. Freak her out. And B. so you won’t freak yourself out, which means they are missing a few Key Components… Which I teach in my course. This is the Navy Seals, the Buddhist Monks way of walking in with all the intel and seeing what’s really going on, instead of being blind.

Again, reason these coaches want you to immediately approach is A. so you don’t get scared! And B. so you don’t scare her away by staring at her in the linear, left brains, locked down hunter mode! Because, when the male is in his logical, linear brain, he has what’s called linear, narrow push energy. And this is hunter mode. It’s intrusive, pushy and it bothers her, scares her and pisses her off… This hunter mode scares the crap out of women. Therefor they, some, PUA Coaches, don’t want you to sit around and stare at her, thus they say approach immediately! Wrong move my friend.

Now, any good Caveman or even a Bull knows that you always take your time and survey the situation. I mean haven’t you heard what the big Bull says to the little bull when the little bull says, “Let’s run down there and fuck a Cow!” The Big Bull says, “I have a better Idea. Let’s walk down there and have Fuck em all!”

Now, believe it or not, but there is a lot of Wisdom in that cute story and the Big Bull is right! If you run down there, you will be lucky to have sex with even 1 because you will scare them away!

There’s a Secrets to this that I teach in my course!

* Now, there is a Secret that I teach in my course that allows you to survey the situation, tune in, notice what’s going on, and make her feel comfortable before you approach, just like when you deal with a horse; you don’t want to spook her, so you can take your time as you can calmly approach her in a way that makes her and you feel very comfortable talking together. That’s too much for this blog though.

*** But for this blog I will give you 1 Powerful Piece that is a part of that other piece. Now this is a Game Changer!

Now, remember, the female brain and mating system is literally the opposite of yours. As I have said, the Female Language is the Spacious “Internal Language.” The male language is the “Linear” Narrow, External Language. See, right there, they go in 2 completely different directions. The same is for how we receive love and how we are turned on! Most men do all 3 of these things in the male external way which is the opposite of the way it works for her.

So, if you are having trouble understanding women, meeting/approaching women and getting along with women, this is why!!! And if you have taken all the pickup artist courses, books and seminars and still can’t meet women or get laid, this is why. They are not teaching these very, very powerful secrets in their courses! That’s why my clients actually get numbers, get laid, understand women and have a lot of fun, sex and more with women…

*** Ok, so what is this specific blog about? See Story:

Take a step back! Yes, take a step back. For example! Right now, literally right now, I am at Starbucks in San Rafael writing this. And this guy who ordered a drink is literally leaning forward, practically hugging the corner of the window partition and is totally staring at the Barrista making the drink! And she is getting all creeped out!

This is a Classical mistake that almost all men make. They like a girl and they invade her space either with their body, leaning towards her, or with that locked on linear/narrow eyeball tactic, they stare at her from afar! Do not do this. And guess what guys? Women freaking hate this!!! My Girlfriend called these guys, “Space Invaders!” And it was not a compliment at all.

By the way, when women say in their online posts on dating sites or in person say they hate creepers, this is what they mean!!! The normal, male way that men naturally are when they like a girl. This is why you seem to only date girls who you don’t like; because your brain does not go into Creepo mode! This intense, linear, narrow focus on her is hunter mode which women call Creepo mode!!! I am not kidding!

So the next time you go to the bank, grocery store, coffee shop or wherever, take a 1/2 of a step back. In one sentence, “GIVE HER, HER SPACE!!!”

Let her freaking breath. Take a 1/2 step back and just let go… let her have her space. At least stand up right and stop leaning in towards her. Stand up with a centered and balanced body. This also triggers her cat and mouse game to want to move towards you. So back off. By respecting her space, it allows her to simply relax and want to get to know you!

*I know, I know, you want to reach out and just grab her because you like her so much! Hahahaha… Admit it, you do! hahaha… You want to know where that comes from? The Caveman era which is still hard wired into your lower, instinctual, reptilian brain.

Remember if she knows you like her, she will get bored and move on! She needs a challenge, so play hard to get by simply stepping back and being neutral physically and emotionally as in don’t lock on… Soften your look…

So the next time you are at a club or down town or wherever, remember, allow some space! Speak louder if you have to. And DO NOT lean forward. I would recommend a neutral stance and breath normally so she can relax with you. This will allow her to feel comfortable with you.

See, a lot of men are afraid to approach women, because there are a multitude of things that men do, to scare or make women feel uncomfortable or irritate/flat out piss women off. And, leaning forward, stepping into her 18″ of space or staring at her in a linear, lock on vision way terrifies most women and at the very least is very, very rude because you are not respecting her space!

Now here’s the cool part. If you are that 1 guy out of 1,000 who she has bumped into that week who stays neutral, gives an extra step of space, she will see you as Different! Because all and I mean almost all guys lean forward and lock on!

* Another Tip! Instead of looking into her and past her 18″ body space, in a focused, linear way, soften your gaze… just soften your eyes and relax so she can relax with you. One way of doing this, is imagine there is a window about 18″ from your body/head that goes from left to right. Allow your vision to stop at this imaginary 15 to 18″ from you, then allow it to gently go from left to right and spread out instead of looking into her eyes/space! Trust me, this will massively allow her to feel relaxed with you! And come to you.

* Another Quick Tip! Slow down!!! Sloooooooooooow waaaay down!!! Just relax… Most men will talk a mile a minute because they get so excited! Now what does this do? #1 It shows her that you are of low value and “Desperate!” Which is not attractive at all.. it’s like, for you, a woman is finally taking to you, like this is a rare thing for you! This is a major turn off. The female mating system is looking for these subtle cues. And talking fast when you first meet a girl can irritate her. She wants to relax with you and feel comfortable, so slow down.

* Another Quick Tip! When she is talking, Shut up!!! Just shut up!!! Allow her to talk and talk and talk!!! And actually listen to what she is saying! This means, stop thinking. Do not interrupt her! And more importantly do not think about what you are going to say next. This is horrible listening skills, because if you are thinking of what you are going to say, then you are not truly 100% listening to what she has to say! So just clear your mind and enjoy her conversation with you and listen to understand what she is saying. That’s it!

See, the male communication processor communicates in tiny bits of short information, thus causing men to talk in short phrases or sentences and thus go back and forth, back and forth in a sentence or 2. But, women at times may communicate in paragraphs of information.

So, if you are excited or even if you are relaxed and you assume/think she is done and you feel the need to interject, DON’T!!! Absolutely do not do this! Just relax, chill out and allow her to complete her thought!!! I did not say sentence! I said, “THOUGHT!” Let her complete her entire thought. Which could be 3 or 4 sentences or possibly even 3 or 4 paragraphs or more.

Trust me, if you are allowing her to express herself and share her thoughts freely without any interruptions and you are listening to actually understand what she is saying, you will absolutely know when she is done. You want to know how? She will completely stop talking and then look at you!

* Another Quick Tip! Breath and talk slow… Just take a deep, relaxing breath and then talk. And take your time. There is no race or rush! She actually wants to relax too… so if you relax, slow down and take your time, then she can relax too… And remember when she is talking, have zero thoughts. And, while she is talking, just take a few deep, slow, relaxing breaths while she is talking… What this does, is allows you to relax and allows her to breath deeply as well thus relaxing her too…

And remember, women are use to taking turns talking, so when it’s your turn, trust me, she will enjoy sitting back and listening to your story and taking this journey with you. She wants to hear you talk and talk and talk…

These are just a few understandings on how to create a more comfortable and relaxing conversation with anyone, including women.

Another Quick Tip: Judge her. Now, I don’t actually believe in being a judgmental person at all. In fact I am all about being accepting, open and receptive. So, what I am saying, is you can completely accept a person for who they are. That doesn’t’ mean this person is going to be your life partner.  And it doesn’t’ mean you have to be friends for life with someone who’s values are so completely different than yours.

What I mean, is get to know her! That’s it!

Yes, find out who she is, what she does, what her goals are, where she’s going in life and what she likes to do. It might be things you have absolutely no interest in at all… See, being picky is a good thing. It means you are not desperate and have self esteem and self respect which score high with girls/women. A guy who sells himself out for a relationship is not of self value. Her mating system is looking for the guy who values himself and his life. This is sooooooooo important!!!

So, what does that really mean? It means, ask questions, find out if the 2 of you are going to be a good fit mentally, emotionally energetically and personality wise! That’s what I mean. Take you time. Get to know her. Don’t commit or sell yourself short until you have taken time to find out who she really is. Is she actually someone you like beyond her looks? Is she someone you enjoy being around? Do you guys have things in common? Etc.

Most men will sacrifice all of their values to get laid or to meet a girl and get into a relationship for sex. This my friends is the wrong move allllllll the waaaaaaaay around! Period.

So be picky, take your time, don’t commit without truly knowing who she really is… 

This also suddenly puts you in a completley different catagorie from all the other men! Is she good enough for you??? all of a sudden something gets triggered inside her. And I’ll tell you what gets triggered. Her mating system!!! It goes off like alarm bells. Finally, finally she has found a good mate who has values, self esteem, and actual, real life boundaries…

See, most guys just sacrifice their rules, beliefs and values just to get love! Turns out this is  a major, major turn off to women. A man who has no boundaries who will sacrifice everythig for love is not a man of choice! This is a man of desperation!

Women want a man who has choice in women. I mean think about it. What woman, what person wants to be in a relationship with you out of default? Meaning that you had no other choices and that you are with her because you are desperate and had no other choices? Do you get that?

Come learn how to be that Man of Choice that she wants. So you can choose her out of choice, not desperation.

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Thank you for reading and coming this far! There is so much more to learn about what it is that makes women really happy, feel loved and understood for Romance, Love and Romantic Seduction!

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Social Proof is fine, but, Self Proof is much more powerful, because self proof is real social proof! If you have to rely on others, female friends or an entourage, cars, money or whatever, then you don’t have real social proof, you have fake/weak social proof!

Now, what do I mean?

Well, that form of Social Proof is an External Form of Social Proof! Which means, you are dependant and reliant on Social Proof Externally, outside of who you are or outside of yourself! Which, limits you and makes you reliant on others, etc.. Ie. you know, when you have to rely on having a girl with you to attract other girls or an expensive car, etc.. This is weak social proof and not actually true or genuine proof. It’s reliant on others/external proof. There is a much more Powerful Form of Social Proof that trumps any form of External Proof. This is the Ace of Spades!

The form of Social Proof that I am talking about, is Internal Social Proof!

So what is Internal Social Proof! Well, in NLP, Hypnosis and Psychology/Therapy terms, what I am saying or what I mean, is the difference between “External Approval” or Others Approval VS. “Self or Internal Approval.”

So, there are 2 kinds of people. Those who look for External Approval from “Others!” Now these people are by far in the majority as in 80+% of the population or more. These people are group oriented people and look to others for approval, right or wrong and what to do or not to do! These people tend to function very well within a group that has some form of leadership. They also tend to be groupies or as Tony Robbins calls them, Emulators. (Then tend to follow and copy.) And, when they go to buy a product or course, they also look to others to see if it’s a good product or course. In other words, they are the ones who almost solely rely on Testimonials from others who have already bought this product and have found it to be a very Powerful and Successful product or course.

Then there are those who are more Internal and look for “Self Approval!” These are a much rarer breed. These people look to self for when they want to or don’t want to do, have or buy something. These are the leaders and are self led individuals. Now, anyone can eventually become self led, but it will take a lot of therapy and personal work and persistence to truly create a stronger sense of self and have a stronger value system within.

Now simply put, these people tend to be leaders and if motivated, flat out lead the pack!

And these people don’t care what any testimonial says or what others think about a course or product. They make up their own decision based on what they think. They read the information, ask questions and make up a decision based on their own information gathering and what they think. Period.

Another cool thing is that these people tend to have a very good decision making strategy. They usually make decisions very fast and know what they want. And that includes if they don’t know yet because they don’t’ have enough information. And thus they will decide not to decide yet and wait until they understand more or have more information.

* Secret Key to the Cave girls mating system! The Caveman who survived and thrived actually was a very selfish caveman who knew what he wanted and went after what he wanted. He didn’t care what other people thought. In other words, he didn’t let social group or an individuals opinion stop him from  getting what he wants out of life! (This is very attractive to the female mating system.)

#1 He Knew what he wanted!

#2 He went after what he wanted! (Because he was “Internal, Self Led.”)

* Now these 2 things are very, very attractive to the females mating system. How many times have you heard a woman say, I am looking for a man who knows what he wants and goes after it? This is why some men seem to attract all the girls. For one reason or another, he was raised or learned to go after what he wanted. And this is why some guys no matter how successful or hard working can’t ever seem to get the girl.

Remember, you could be completely and totally broke and attract her based off of her unconscious mating systems requirements! And this is why a Rich man can lose his wife or girlfriend to a guy who doesn’t’ even have a job! Because the guy who has goals and is moving forward and has “Self Approval” is extremely attractive to a females mating system.

I had a client who had a million dollar home, owned his own business, had a great exercise routine, was in phenomenal shape, tall, slender, very healthy and could be a model. He was a great looking, rich and successful man. But… What kept happening to him was he kept meeting girls who initially were attracted to him and they would slowly but surely lose interest… So he would spend more money and try to attract them or keep them by buying more expensive things, trips, etc..

And no matter what he would do, they would eventually leave him for… A guy who was broke or had a poor job!

Now here’s why! Sure, he had what a man thought a female wanted, but he wasn’t moving, at all… He lived in the same home, had the same business in the same place and had the exact same hobbies! He didn’t have any goals. For over 15 years or more, he was doing the same exact routine making the same amount of money for over 15 years. He was not growing, expanding and developing as a person in any way, shape or form, at all… He was stagnant! Sure, sure he had money, too, trips, had a business, BMW, etc. etc. but the other guys who were living in an apartment, working hard, 2 jobs, going to college, whatever, were actively going after their goals.

These guys were literally on it! They had real goals and were “Actively” Moving in a direction. This is huge, huge, huge to the female mating system! How many times have you heard a woman say, “I don’t care if a guy is rich at all. All I care about is if he has real goals!” Now, this means actually taking steps daily, weekly towards making them happen. Then once you achieve them, set newer goals and move forward with active steps and especially a guy who is focused on what he wants out of life and is going after it!

Well, my client who was very successful, especially compared to these other guys had a hard time understanding this, because as he said, “But I already have these things and have achieved my goals. I have the Million dollar home, I make a lot of money, I am my own man, etc.” I said, “But, you have to be moving in a direction and raising the bar or at least setting different goals. Maybe it’s to start a new hobby or learn a new language or culture or something, anything! You have to move and get after it! Period!”

Now, to her system, this guy who is rich, has the home, business, etc. who is not expanding, moving forward is equivalent to the guy who constantly bullshits and talks the talk but doesn’t walk the walk. I know logically it’s not the same to the male brain, but to the female brain, a guy who is not actively moving forward is a bullshitter to her, making promises, constantly telling her that he’s gonna, he’s gonna, but never does! Eventually she’s going to get sick and tired of this and leave. And yes, this applies to the rich guy who isn’t actively going after it.

* So trust me, when women say they are looking for a man who has goals, knows what he wants and knows how to get it, she is not kidding! She means that!

Now, in short, this and everything I teach all has to do with the way our mating systems were hard wired from the Caveman era, because our mating system still operate off of the same principles and functions.

See, the Caveman had to constantly plan, prepare and go after animals and hunt almost daily in order to survive and take care of her and the children. And another thing he had to do was be very good at working with and socializing with other cavemen, in order to protect  and provide for his family and survive. This is why mother natured designed this into the female’s mating system to be attracted to a man who is good at socializing and making connections and has social/communication skills.

* And this is exactly what my entire course is all about. So you will not only get the girl, you will gain greater Social Power and Develop Greater Social Influence by learning these specific social skills and powerful communication skills that unconsciously trigger her mating system to want to mate with you for life!

And all of this is hard wired into her system. So, if you have made millions and are retired or even just going in the same circle forever, then her mating system loses interest in you, and will begin looking for a better mate.

Which answers why a lot of women will leave their rich husbands for a guy who is struggling, is out of shape, not good looking, etc., but, he has gumption, is going after it, talking to people, making things happen, etc..

Back to this “Internal Approval” which is true Social Power!!!

Now what is really going on between these 2 different types of individuals or people? It’s really quite simple what creates this. Simply put, the External people literally seek approval outside of themselves by having an external view.

Those who are Self led naturally look within for approval and guidance. Now that’s not to say you can’t go to college, learn from others, higher Professional coaches and learn from experts. In fact, the majority of people who higher professional coaches are those who are at the top!!! Ie. Professional Business men, Tony Robbins, Professional Athletes, etc.. And those people tend to be the “Internal” self led people.

Now, what am I really talking about? I am simply stating that there is a way of viewing the world and developing this way of going through life by constantly looking and sensing within for answers, questions, approval and sensing the world from within. And this is exactly what Jesus and Buddha were attempting to teach the masses or anyone who would listen to what they really meant by this. The Famous Phrase is “Look Within!”

Now, here is what I will teach you in my course. I will teach you very, very powerful techniques to learn how to open up to your Internal Right brain. And then I will teach you how to reconnect with your Internal Self.

Tip: Here is a very basic way of beginning to do develop this right now.

#1 Go into Peripheral vision. In other words, notice what is on the periphery. Now, don’t focus or try or strain. In fact, do the opposite. “Let Go!” Just relax, breath deep and let go… That will automatically open you up to your periphery…

#2 Now as you are open like that, then, also put your awareness “Internally!” Yes, put your awareness inside or at least on your body; chest, heart, lungs, gut, upper and middle back, down the side of your arms, legs, etc..

Now, what does this #2 do? It reconnects you to your Radar System. The system that is directly connected to your 5 senses; see, hear, feel, taste and smell. And once you truly learn how to do this and develop this in a much more powerful way, then this will automatically attract her to you because this means you are Self Aware and listening to your radar system which is your body/5 senses. Your body is constantly giving you all kinds of signals. Now you may have heard that or read that before, but in my course I will make you very, very aware of your body and it’s sensations and you will clearly understand and know what it is telling you!

Sure, this does take work and commitment and discipline to develop this more and more to the point that you are truly grounded and connected. But the pay off is worth it in every way you could imagine from attracting women to calming you wife or girlfriend to gaining greater social power and learning how to open up and see the bigger picture which allows you to notice more and learn more and is the sole reason why some guy shave the edge in life, love and business! Without truly developing this, you are dead in the water and left to a life of wondering why others guys seem to just have things go there way!

* Again, in my courses, I will teach you a lot more powerful techniques to make this fun, develop this and gain more and more of this form of Social Proof / Power!

* So are we doing anything to her? 

Answer: No! We are doing something for you, too you and with ourselves! We are self leading ourselves. Period! The female mating system is hard wired/designed to find men who are self led & “Internal very, very attractive!” This is one of the most powerful ways to trigger the female mating system without actually doing anything other than listening to yourself, being internal and self led.

Now, once you truly develop this natural “Internal Self, you don’t need props, cars, money or to be surrounded by others…

Sounds pretty cool doesn’t it! In fact, I am going to take it one step further! Have you ever wondered why you see this beautiful girl with this shorter, not so seemingly powerful guy and is totally in love with him? Well, I’ll tell you why! There is a very, very powerful and distinct difference between men who rely on external social proof for self esteem and men who have a much stronger sense of self by being “Internal” and look for self approval! This is what she is looking for in a man! To her, this is what a man is! A man who is connected within himself.

Now what am I talking about? I am talking about everything you have learned in all the other Pickup artists courses and dating classes and books! You know, how to be dependent on external things and other people to help you get laid or meet women! You know, asking a female friend to go out with you so other girls will find you attractive and wonder why she is with you, etc. Or having big jewelry or fur or any of these external things you put onto your body! Sure, it’s works at first, to meet women, but it’s very, very limited and it takes up a lot of your time and also your energy. well, what do I mean?

I mean you are stuck! You are completely stuck relying on having a female friend with you (Pre Selection) are for a group of fake or real buddies to talk you up! You know, about how great you are, etc.. What’s worse, you are reliant on all these external props and people to get women curious about you! So if they are not around, you are screwed.

Sure, she may get curious and may talk to you to find out more about you and may even give you here number and go on a few dates with you. But there’s a major problem. Remember how I said she will become curious about you because you are with another girl or group of friends? Well guess what she’s going to do? She’s going to spend time with you, investigating you and looking, searching to find out who you are.

And you know what? She is going to slowly, eventually discover who you really are! What she’s going to discover is that you attracted her simply by having props, other girls with you and your buddies speaking you up and eventually discover who you really are! Because, eventually you have to be you and she is going to find out who you really are!

This is why a lot of guys get really good at playing these games and getting numbers, dates, picking up on women, even sex, but can’t seem to keep a girl or make a relationship work!

And there is a level of deception and trickery instead of you being the genuine you! But then again, that isn’t easy either is it! So for now, you are stuck on having to either A. put up with a bunch of other guys and hope they work with you, do the right thing and say the right thing, etc. B. you have to rely on them or a female friend to go out with you or some external thing! Which really isn’t true Social Proof and especially is not true Social Power!!!

So you say you want Social Power because let’s be honest, True Social Power is very rare and it is the only True, Real Social Proof there is!

So come on give us a call here at MGK Enterprises and learn the real core of Understanding and Loving women, so she makes love with the real you inside!

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If you have these powerful tools we teach here at MGK Enterprises and Caveman Technologies, it’s easy to start to realize you now have lot to offer a woman what she really wants… This course goes much, much deeper than Pickup artists courses and will Powerfully compliment and amplify your ability to meet that special lady!

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There a few Key, Core Understandings in the female’s mating system that once you understand, you won’t have to lie or rely on fake or weak external social proof or any of that stuff. And for God’s sake please, please stop with the God Damn lines! Women absolutely hate lines to death! And I will prove it in my course by explaining how the female brain is wired how lines literally irritate her system/brain!

Ok, I’ll explain this a little bit here now. Ok, the left brain is the male brain which is the logical, linear, rule oriented, structured processor / brain for math and science, business and work. Now look at a very important word in that sentence, “Linear!” 

Now if you break that word down, what does it mean and spell? Line + ar = Linear. “Line!” It means to go in a line. And this line is externally, outside of your body, or away from you outside!

Now let’s take this 1 step further! Now the Right brain is called the Female Brain. The Right Brain is the Emotional, Creative, Spiritual, “NON LINEAR” processor! See that? Non Linear! Now what does that mean? It means that her brain is the spacial brain. And when you throw linear lines at her, it drives her right brain freaking bazerkers! It’s like shorting out an electrical system. And it sexually turns her OFF!!! She doesn’t like it at all…

The right brain is the “Internal” Brain. And the female language is the “INTERNAL” language! It literally goes inside in an inward direction, just like electricity. The male languages is called the “External” Language. The male electricity also known as the positive electron goes externally. The female electricity is the returning electricity and goes inwards! So when you throw a line or lines at her, it takes her outside of her right brain and she hates this. And thus it takes her away from her mating system and disconnects her from her mating system  and thus literally turns her off!!! It takes her out of her right brain and puts her into her left logical brain.

So come take my course and learn how to speak this internal language that literally triggers her mating system to want to have sex with you and make love with you and marry you! I mean you do want her to feel deeply loved and cared for right? Well that’s what the “Internal Female Language” Does for her! It is the only way women can receive Love from you!

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* And!!! The female mating system is directly connected to her Right, Female Communication processor Brain. This is why the Hidden-Coded, Right Brained “Internal Female Language” Triggers her sexually to want to have sex with you! Because it is directly connected to her mating system. Yes, there is a hidden language that mother nature hid from the male brain that turns her on! And you keep on paying for shit! Come on man! Come learn the real Secret!

So when you are in your left brain using lines, being logical, then you are literally forcing her to come out of her right brain, where her mating system is connected too, and thus she has to go into her left, logical brain in order to understand your linear communication. And thus she is taken away from her mating system and is now getting logical… not sexual… ugh!!!!

* Do you want to know why women hate it when men try to “Impress” her???

Because that’s a linear process!!! It’s literally what’s called the Push energy or External direction of communication. Just look at that word “IMPRESS!!!”

Now let’s break that word down. “Impress”. Im + Press = Impress!

Look at the word Press! You are literally pressing her away with your mentality and logical, impressing words! Press is an External word going outside away from her mating system and turns her off!

When you try to impress her with your car, how much money you have, your trophies you won or your job or degree, it’s boring her to death and literally pushing/pressing her away from you! I am dead serious!

And thus you have made a logical friend and you are now stuck in the Logical Friends Box!!!

You have been fed so much crap in all of these other courses, it’s not even funny!

They keep teaching you lines and tricks and all this logical, left brain Bullshit that turns her off… Sure, she’ll talk to you! She’ll be your friend.

Let me ask you a question. Are you really getting laid like a Rock Star? Yes or no!!!

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I’ll tell you why you are not getting it. It’s because she is literally trying to teach this to you in a hidden female coded language that the male brain literally can not process! And that is the  break through discovery that I have made! #1 I figured out what it is that literally triggers her mating system that melts her heart and brings her back into your arms. And this Powerfully, sexually, Romantically and Seductively turns her on, “IN THE FEMALE WAY” that she likes!!!

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Self Proof is the real Social Proof her mating system is really looking for!

Next: Social Proof! #3 How to Powerfully attract women!!! True Social Power and what is it?

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#1 What is Social Proof and why is it so important to meeting the girl of your dreams?

Well, social proof is a very necessary part of the female’s mating system’s attraction mechanism! In fact, she, as in her mating system, will not even consider you unless you have a certain level of social proof, because her mating system is looking for a guy who is Awake and aware of his surroundings. Problem is not many modern men are! Most modern men are stuck in their logical, left, male brain. You know, the I’m smart, I have a college degree, I can count to 100 brain. I can memorize a ton of useless shit! I couldn’t tell you if the well dressed man, peacefully reading next to me is about to kill me or not for the life of me. I can’t read an animals body language or tell if this animal is about to strike in a moments notice. You know the part of your brain that can actually smell or sense a Wolf or a Mountain Lion’s presence from 300 meters away. You know that ability that makes her feel safe with you. You know, that Awareness that tells you that you are about to get screwed in a business deal or social exchange!

The Modern male is sooooooooo lost and completely disconnected from his own senses, it’s not even funny! And if you don’t believe me, then you are that much more blind and oblivious. You still don’t’ believe me? Ok, fine! How many times have you heard a woman, women constantly say, “Men just don’t get it!” How many movies, tv shows or women in public say, “Where’s all the Good men?” They are not talking about a nice guy at all. They are not talking about a guy who pays for dinner or opens doors or buys her flowers! This is literally the opposite of what she means!

Women are screaming out!!! Saying, what happened to the man who takes charge, leads and is aware socially and see’s what’s coming???

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Well my friends you have been blinded and lied to and brainwashed/conditioned hypnotically by society! You’ve been turned into Rule oriented followers who don’t even pay attention to your own internal desires or needs. You do what you are told like a machine! Math, science, the modern age of machines and especially computers have turned your mind into pure mush! You think it’s about getting good grades, passing tests and knowing html. It’s not! This entire system of social rules and everything that you have been taught and especially the computer age has completely disconnected you from your right, emotional brain, your own Internal Self!

Now why is that soooooo important when it comes to women? I’ll tell you why?

The left brain is the male brain, the logical, linear, rule oriented brain, the closed mind! Sure, it’s good at understanding math and science and computers, but it sucks when it comes to understanding, romancing, turning on and loving women.

And the female mating system is hard wired to mate with a man who is right brained, if she can find him. They are extremely rare! Because in the modern age we have conquered the planet and animals. We now have cement sidewalks and buildings, cars and heaters and air conditioners, grocery stores, antibiotics, hospitals, computers and every imaginable thing you could imagine for the modern man to not have to rely on his inborn natural instincts. Thus he falls into a deep sleep and walks around in a slumber without even knowing it.

The Modern male is lost because he has lost his instincts and has completely disconnected from them… The problem is, the female was born using her instinctual right brain automatically, which is directly connected to her mating system/instincts. The right brain is the females home! In other words, women are born naturally using their emotional, spiritual, instinctual brain automatically by birth. But men were born using their logical, left brain by birth! And this is a huge, huge, huge problem for the modern female, because it does not make her feel loved, understood, turned on or anything. She is completely missing out on all of these amazing sensations and experiences and feelings that women need to receive from men… But, as many women say, “He’s out in Left Field!”

OH, you just thought that was a funny saying? No!!! She literally means you are out in your left brain, disconnected form what’s really going on!

* Now something very important is about to come up.

Now, the Caveman was forced to use his right brain and develop it over time! Well, why is that? Because, the right brain is directly connected to your 5 senses! You know the see, hear, feel, taste and smell senses! There is no way in hell the Caveman could have survived a single day without being highly connected to his 5 senses which are in his right brain. Thus the caveman was left and right brain, without it, he would die!

* And this right brained male is highly attractive to women because he is a strong surviver & thrives in the jungle.

The modern male is stuck in his left brain because our society has made the external world completely safe with guns, cars, safe streets, street lights, rules, cars, math, science and everything that is left brain! So we don’t need our right brain. Or do we?

Well, in a way we do and in a way we don’t! What do I mean? Well, to eat, sleep and live we don’t need to use our right brain anymore! The Caveman had to survive by his instincts in order to stay alive by hunting and literally smelling & sensing danger! And no, I don’t mean magically deliciously in a fake, fairy tale way! I mean by literally hearing the slightest sound, by smelling testosterone from down wind at the slightest hint and even tuning into his environment in a way that the modern male thinks is just in Comic books where Super Hero’s can do these things.

The Caveman’s senses were so heightened, that he could see an animal 300 meters away in a dense forrest or foliage, perfectly camouflaged, just like a dog or a wild bird of prey does, like the American Eagle or almost any predator does.

Now to the modern male, this is all hoohey foohey! To the modern male, because he is so disconnected from his right brain and has no clue let alone no connection to this part of his brain, and was literally taught at a very, very young age to stop day dreaming, stop listening to his senses and tuning in, but instead was constantly taught to listen, listen, listen to math & science, he has zero clue what this is, because to him he has never known himself at all! He truly believes it’s all an old fashion myth or a ninja secret! It’s not!!!

It’s your God Damn God Given right to know yourself within and be connected to your power! If you don’t feel deeply, deeply connected and Powerfully in charge or your life, it’s because you have been trained and conditioned for years to do what you are told externally by others who will get rich off of your hard work! And you will go right along with this! It’s literally called Social Hypnosis! And it’s used on you all the time!

* I’ll wake you up! And give you back your Power!!! 

* IMPORTANT POINT 

Now here’s the Kicker!!!! Her mating system is directly connected to her right Brain’s Communication Center! Now think about that for a minute! Why is that soooooooo important??? Again, there is a nerve that connects her mating system to her right brains Emotional Communication Processor! Get it?

It means she is turned on Sexually through words!!! (Not any words, the Hidden “Internal Language” that men don’t speak!) This is the Secret!

Yes, women are sexually turned on by her ears! Her ears!!!

Her mating system is looking for a man who has figured out how to open up to his right brain, because this means A. he will have a better chance at survival and thriving in the world. B. Because it means he will be able to read other people better. And C. because the right brain is the social brain, which means if he figures out how to open up to his social right brain, he will have better and more opportunities in life because he is better at socializing with a larger group of people and thus will be put into leadership positions, which means her children will have a greater chance at survival and a better life in the long run! That is why her mating system is connected to her right, communication/social brain!

And when you are connected to this part of your brain, then you are powerfully attractive to her and she can’t help it! Her mating system takes over and says, I have to have him! Period!

And, this trumps all the other External Social Props such as what you are taught in the other pickup artist courses!

Well, I’ll tell you why by comparison. The male mating system is directly connected to his optic nerve which is directly connected to his eyes! Thus men get turned on visually by seeing a pretty woman; visually! His male mating system is directly turned on visually through his eyes!!!

That’s why men Love Pictures and XXX Rated Porno’s and XXX Magazines and images!

And that’s the same reason women get so upset / offended at Porno’s and pornography in General.

And, this is why women Love Romance Novels and books like 50 Shades of Gray! Women hate to watch Porno, but they will read the fuck out of it!!! Women love a very specific set of words that are created in the right brains, female way! And that is what I teach in my course!

Look close at the book! 50 Shades of Grey! (Women love Romance Novels because of the Hidden “Internal Female Language!!!)

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This is a very, very Powerful blog for you to understand what’s going on! So read this entire thing!

Part I.

Are you Socially Conditioned & Hypnotized to fail with women? Odds are, you are!

Are you Socially Conditioned or Awake?

More than 80% of all humans on this planet are Brainwashed and Socially Conditioned… Most humans absolutely do not think! In fact most people are merely experts at following rules and doing what they are told! In fact, our entire educational system is designed to program you to do 4 things really well. #1 Do what you are told! #2 Follow rules! #3 Cleanliness, be clean. #4 Learn how to function well within groups! Oh, you thought that by being an expert test taker and memorizing useless facts means you are intelligent? hahaha… Sorry! But it’s actually quite the opposite!

Did you know that 10% of the men  are having sex with almost 80% of the women, at least at clubs? They are no better looking than you, they are not tall, not any richer or anything. But, they are not socially Hypnotized/ conditioned to follow some fake set of rules set up by someone you never met! And you know what, you are probably a better person and just as good if not better, smarter than at least 1/2 of these guys!

* If you are socially conditioned to follow rules, then you are not listening to your natural instincts. And this is what the female mating system is looking for; a man who is connected to his own instincts instead of being socially conditioned to do what he is told!

Did you know that over 80% of people are actually in the rat race which means they are functioning off of their lower reptilian brain which is the animal brain that is instinctual and designed to follow those 4 things really well?

So much so, that in fact individual, actual real thinking is practically prohibited in our society! It’s true! Do you know that our entire educational system & college system rewards Good memorizers / test takers! That’s it! You get an A for the day! Good Doggie! Good Doggie! Roll over! Good boy! Good Boy! “But you can’t Think!” Test Taking, memorizing is the opposite of actual Extrapolating, seeing the Big picture and integrating the information and having your own thoughts, ideas and creativity!

I find it absolutely insane that in the year 2013 that we still function like robotic/instinctual animals that merely function like a Bee Hive or group of Ants, merely doing their job without actually thinking! It’s actually quiet sad actually to see so many vibrant, alive and highly intelligent individuals shutting off their larger human brain because of the social, society and group punishment for actually thinking. Our Schools, Churches, families, and especially the corporate world are all designed to punish you for stepping outside of the box and actually (Key word here) “Extrapolating” knowledge and information and actually having a unique, indivicual thought of your own!

And you know what what, merely going against the group or against the grain is not individual thinking either, it’s merely just doing the opposite of what the group is thinking or doing. That is not thinking! I am not here to say, do the opposite or be anti anything. In fact, I am going to teach you how to “Actually Think”, think for yourself, individually in a way that allows you to get along with the group even better and help the group function on a higher Level. Now that’s Progress. This Anti everything is like putting the damn brakes on. That is useless. And what’s worse, is it merely screws you over in your entire life in every interaction.

Now, here is the really cool thing. Not only do you gain greater social power, get along with others better, and make greater progress, but the female mating system is hard wired to be highly attracted to a guy who actually thinks for himself in this way! Again I did not say do the opposite or blindly go against the grain. That is not thinking at all.

Yes, in this Blog/News Letter, I will give you actual, real, Powerful, easy to do tips on how to gain more of this! But this is only the beginning…

Now, back to where I was. I am sorry to say this, but the only way for society to function, as it is at least, is by having more than 80% of people blindly hypnotized and socialized as in, “Trained like a Dog!” And you know who can see this more than others? Women! Yes, women can see how easily you respond when spoken to in a very specific way! It’s called Conditioned Response!  Dr. Bob Bays; Psychologist, said at a Seminar that any women who has raised a Child to the age of 5 should automatically be given a masters degree in Psychology because of how good women get at Influencing children and also others! And they use this Conditioning Response to gain power over you! Guys I am attempting to show you how this is done and open your eyes so you can stand your ground. She wants an awakened man who doesn’t fall for this!

Now, Corporations are doing it to all of us at work, in commercials, our government is doing this too. But, as I have said in many of my writings, it’s not all the Demonic or evil, but if you want more personal, social and sexual power, you need to learn how to Wake up, use your mind and turn back on to Life!

That’s why all the other courses on learning how to get laid fast with tips or turn women on or Seduce women actually don’t work. What they are doing is putting you further into your lower, reptilian, rule oriented brain by teaching you how to follow more rules and do more tips and tricks. Screw Rules, tips and tricks! This is good Doggie, close your eyes, blind Doggie, pat your head good boy  stuff! And the female mating system is not turned on by it sexually! I actually dont’ believe in tips, tricks or rules, at all. In fact, I hate them. I only put dating tips in the title to get better google search rankings and also to get your attention because I know that your lower system is looking for that word. See, I already got you didn’t I? It’s that easy, because that’s what the male brain is hard wired to look for because of it’s very design! But not the females mating system, in fact, it’s the opposite!

Now, I am here to wake you up and make life easier and a lot more fun and more rewarding. And hopefully, eventually also teach you how to gain more of what you want out of life, love and relationships.

See, as all good rats know, the minute someone else actually begins to think for themselves, the other rats know to attack, belittle, beat down and influence you, “Socially Condition you”, in one way or another to shut back down… to just fit in, be a part of the group. Again, there is absolutely nothing and I mean nothing wrong with being a part of a group. But when your heart and soul, when your uniquely, individualized mind is shut down, then we have a problem Houston! This is Negative Social Conditioning. Loving others has nothing to do with fitting in or conforming, especially at the expense of your happiness, joy and creative expression of who you are and getting what you want out of life. And that includes getting the girl or girls of your dreams!

This is a Course on your Freedom to Live in your Power and get more of what you want out of life, love and relationships!

Think about this Social Conditioning/Social Hypnosis I am talking about for a minute! How many guys, maybe even you, are nervous to approach a girl in public because, “OMG! Dare I say it????” Because you like her!!!! And do I dare throw in the real life fact that you are actually attracted to her??? Is it me or is this just pure Ass Backwards thinking we have in this society that tells men they are bad or makes them feel bad for having the balls to actually approach someone he finds attractive and possibly likes????

OH, here’s another one. A lot of guys who don’t’ actually know what my course is about automatically assume the worst. In the beginning it really challenged my thinking. In fact a manager of a local self help magazine, who we all thought was Mr. Consciousness and Awareness, just assumed and generalized my teachings into something it was not! Turns out, he is just another rat following the rat crowd of anger and negativity and fitting into the miserable politically correct box prison!

Until after years and years of talking to women about my course, it dawned on me, they, other guys, are jealous, so they make up some crap! All of this, the dirty looks the negative feed back, every single thing like You shouldn’t date younger girls, etc. what a load of Bullshit, Social Hypnosis. Truth of the matter is, this is what’s wrong with our society! We as humans naturally know what to do. Our minds, feelings, instincts know exactly what to do. But some idiot has to come along and blindly make up some rule that tells us whatever it is that we are naturally doing is wrong! Now that’s where things get f’d up! It has ruined society and our happiness and love for each other!

And you know what’s worse? The reason these people are doing this, is because they are holding themselves back from living an amazing, amazing life full of freedom, Self empowerment, happiness, Love, Joy and greater, more meaningful pleasure and fun in life! Life can be amazing if you can just find your own truth and Live it!

I am here to bring you back around full circle to teach you, show you and prove to you by watching women suddenly open up to you and have amazing conversations and experiences with you and suddenly tell, you why aren’t more guys like this, that this course is a healthy course and is what women want! So, why don’t more guys talk like this and express themselves in this way? Answer: “Because society f’ked them up!” Because they have been lied too, a lot!

My course is about Love, Understanding, Communication, Happiness, Fun, Healthy, natural approaches, being normal and being comfortable in your skin knowing that women feel honored when a guy puts in the effort to actually approach her, start up a conversation and if you are attracted to her, “Romantically Seduce” her in the Female way! What! You don’t think women, females, girls enjoy being turned on sexually or Romanced or Seduced? Well, you are living like a Robot, because women have emotions and feelings and yes, Dare I say it, “DESIRES!!!!” So, it’s ok to know this and it’s ok to approach women with this knowledge nnd understand how to comfortably lead a women from meeting her to getting into a sexual relationship with her!

But, but, but… We as a human species are beyond this Caveman / Cave girl type animalistic thinking. We have conquered the land and we are now a technical society which means we can now tap into our greater, creative Powers! So, it’s really up to you to take a course like this to not only learn how to open up to your larger hemisphere and step outside of the Rat Cage, but step into the New Future we, some of us are now living on this planet!

See, this course is not merely about you getting laid or finding  a wife and then shutting back down and falling back to sleep! NO! NO!!!! This is a course that mother nature designed for you to turn back on, catch on fire and wake the Fuck up!!! See, Mother nature purposely designed females in the way she did so it would force you, push you, pull you by desire to learn to grow, to develop your mind to the extent that you finally open up to your larger hemisphere. No, not just for sex. Sure, when you finally do this, it is like a Rocket launcher that has finally taken off with women and you will have lots of sex. This is more than that. This is about creating an amazing life, creative mind filled with ideas and thoughts to make life absolutely amazing. The more you open up to your larger hemispheres the more you will see, hear and experience everything I am talking about!

Once you open up to this greater, much more Powerful way of thinking and living life, you will never be bored again for more than a few moments. Life is Awesome when you are on fire like this!

Society is Changing whether you like it or not! You can either follow the pack, or take this course and get in early and learn how to lead the pack by being that guy who has more choice in women, more social power and more social influence! It’s up to you!

Now, here’s the deal. It is completely up to you to make that decision to take a course like this and step out of that cage society has built for you! And you know what, society actually has. Once you see it, you will be blown away! It’s a psychological cage more than anything else. See, just like Ants or a Bee Hive, society has to have at least 80% to 90% of the people do as they are told and controlled. And thus the top 1% to 10% reap the rewards off of your back! So, do you want to be that 80% or do you want to step it up? Again, we as a species no longer have to live like this anymore, but we still do because most are too lazy to push themselves to wake up! This is simply not necessary anymore, because we have tools, huge machines and computers, etc. etc.. But the old Slave master thinking, to dominate and control the masses and keep them down is still in effect, merely by the way we are socialized and hypnotized socially!

Part II. Relax, chill, and mellow out! This allows her to feel relaxed, calm and comfortable with you and allows you to approach and meet her! And this helps you to wake up to your larger brain… I’ll explain in bit…

#1 Watch this video and start watching other comedies and video’s. It really will condition you over time to relax, open up and gain more social power by tapping in to that larger brain of yours!

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So here is a video to make you laugh.. Start watching funny video’s to make you laugh and loosen up…

#2 Women have a very powerful sense or radar… They literally pick up on your emotions and feelings, just like a horse… so if you are nervous and uptight, she will feel nervous nad uptight… And will freak if you A. try to pick her up, or B. will get uptight if you try to lead her to sex! So chill out!!!! hahaha…

#3 Stop taking yourself so seriously… just stop that shit. It makes you an uptight, tight wad that people avoid…  Laugh, smile, loosen up and stop making such a big deal about everything… especially about picking up on and seducing women… See, we are not doing anything to them, The art of Romance, love and Sediuction includes women, it’s something we are doing together with women. It is literally, as women say, “It is a Dance that we are doing together!” See, women already know this, it’s you who haven’t figured this out yet… Sheesh… so let me help you out here! I’ll teach you this mental, metaphorical dance to lead her into the bedroom with you!

She wants you to turn her on and seduce her romantically! But, do you know how? Do yo know the Erotic dance of Romantic Seduction that makes her feel Powerful feelings that go shooting through her entire body, filling her up in a way that she just can’t resist?

I will reveal and show you how you have been Hypnotized by F’ked up people to limit you and control you form having and getting what everyone else is getting! Love, sex, pleasure nad a whole lot of fun! LIfe was meant to be enjoyed to the fullest and for you to have fun!

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level I. Awakening from the lies!

Level II. Taking Back your God Given Powers!

Level III. Understanding the art of Romance women desire from you!

A few questions for you to see if you to see how much you are socially hypnotized?

#1 Are you always nice or trying to be nice? Or Do you bark at people when they make you mad?

#2 Do you open doors for women and rely on being kind, polite to get laid?

#3 Do you still rely on paying for dinner, drinks, movies and gifts in order to be loved and get sex?

#4 Do you feel the need to cut others down or belittle them in order to feel good about yourself?

* Did you know that women actually like it when a man barks at her and let’s her know when she upsets him?

* Did you know that women find men with strong boundaries who enforce them, very, very attractive and prefer these types of men over men who have no boundaries and are weak mentally?

* Did you know that the female mating system actually needs to work to make you happy? It’s hard wired into her DNA! So, if you don’t ask her to do things for you as well, then she will not value you! Now, when I say she, I don’t mean her consciously. I mean her unconscious mating system. This is why so, so, sooooooo many women/ladies/girls will over time want to leave the relationship, even though socially he fits in the box, is a good provider, pays for meals, movies, massages her, is loyal, faithful, and everything a girls left brain says she wants in a man. You know, where all of her friends and even her mom are shocked and try to convince her that she has hit gold that she is with the man of her dreams. Yet, she ends up leaving him for a guy who cheats on her, doesn’t have a job, etc.

I know this all sounds nuts, but how many freaking times have you seen this and experienced this in your life??? A thousand to a million times at least! Now, remember, my course deals with what her mating system is highly, highly attracted to and answers why women leave the good guy for the jerk. There is something instinctually being triggered in her by this guy! It’s something the socially conditioned guy would never do, because he has been hypnotized to be a good guy! ugh!

Honestly, The Good Guy Does Finish Last! I hate to say this, but it’s soooooooo true! 

But, there are really amazing answers to this dilemma, so you don’t have to be the Jerk but rather the guy who has a set of Balls and has Self Respect and most importantly, Healthy Boundaries  and stands firm on them! And I teach this in my course!

Just like you need to do your job, so does she! It’s a 2 way road and she knows this. Haven’t you noticed how many times women leave men who do everything for her and then she ends up with the So Called Jerk who she cooks and cleans for and will do anything for? Have you ever noticed how happy she is with this type of man? I call this a man with boundaries, self esteem who expects in return as well. Come to my course and I will go much more in depth into this!

So be Grumpy when you are feeling grumpy! Express your anger when she upsets you! Bark at her when she is not getting the message! She will not only enjoy this, she will respect you for this, because now she knows what you don’t like. Most men leave women wondering and on edge, walking on egg shells not knowing what is, or is not pissing you off. And women can’t respect this passivity in men! This passive aggressive behavior drives her nuts!

* Women actually like & Respect men with a Back bone! Ask any, any, any woman this! Or ask them if they are truly, mentally, emotionally and sexually attracted to men they can walk all over and will stay happily married to this type of man and live a completely fulfilling life with a weak willed man forever! Zero!

#5 Do you think that if you are polite socially, don’t make waves and follow the so called social rules that she will find you attractive or to be the guy she wants to be with? Really? hahaha..

Nothing and I mean nothing could be further from the truth! I was at the mall and a former client of mine, who worked at the mall noticed how women all around me were drawn towards me and in his words, “Powerfully” attracted to me and I wasn’t even looking at them. He wondered what this Black Magic, Voo Doo I had on women!

I laughed and said, “Bro, G Doggie, I am not using Black Magic or Voo Doo. I am using Witch Craft! hahaha… Just kidding! Hahaha… I was merely expressing myself freely with my body language! And the female mating system is highly, highly, Powerfully Attracted to a man who can freely use his body language in the Hidden, Internal way that most men have been blocked off from!” And yes, I also teach this in my courses as well.

Ok, what I was doing merely was freely expressing myself with my voice, tone and especially body language! So many men are locked up, it’s not even funny! And men actually pride themselves on this tough guy body language/expression. Unfortunately, it doesn’t’ turn on her mating system. But, the hidden internal way does!

Now, this is not something I teach directly as in technique or tips or how to do. What I do is open you up to this part of your brain so you will begin to do this naturally without thinking about it. See, if I teach you how to do this or that in this way or that way, it will only put you further into your do what you are told brain! And that will take away from your natural expression of what you are truly thinking and feeling & feeling. It has to be naturally coming from within. Unfortunately the male brain was not designed to function in this way naturally by birth. And our society teaches men to be like robots on a huge, huge scale. And it’s really sad!

Ok, more things you can do, I hate to say it, but Tips!

* Note, in my courses, I clearly teach why this stuff works, behind the scenes, so you don’t have to blindly go into a situation no knowing why it works. In my courses, You will clearly go into the situation being able to see what the Defense is doing so you can know what to do when things shift direction on you! See, if you take all these courses on tips, tricks and Cheerios, then you really don’t know what you are doing and can’t clearly see what the opposition is doing. And thus the moment she shifts direction, you are screwed and have no idea what’s going on or what to do.

See, in my course, it’s very simple because I show you the set patterns in her mating system and I do this by opening you up to this part of your brain, so again, you don’t have to memorize a ton of tricks, tips and or rules, but rather have a greater understanding of what’s going on inside her brain and how her brain functions! I will open your eyes so you can see!

You will see it coming! And you will automatically know what to do, so you don’t have to memorize a bunch of tricks, tips and what if scenarios! Just like what I said above about expressing yourself with your body language, it will be automatic, because you will be in the same world as she is and coming from the same part of your brain and will see it!

Seriously guys, screw memorizing all of those lines and tricks and shit. Sure, I’ll give you some patterns, but most importantly is to get your brain to begin processing in this way so it’s super, super easy! No more tricks. Hey, Like the Bunny Rabbit said, “Tricks are for Kids!”

#1 Watch more comedy and learn to just loosen up and stop taking yourself so seriously!

#2 Breath! Yes, just freaking learn to breath deep, especially when you are talking to a female.

Now why are these 2 tips powerful? Because laughter and deep breathing not only help you to relax, but they take you out of your lower reptilian brain and open you up to your larger brain which naturally allows you to think and communicate much more naturally without thinking! And that is what her mating system is looking for; Natural Communication.

Ok, here is a little behind the scenes teaching that I keep mentioning that I teach in my course. The reason women are sooooooo sensitive to your emotions like if you are uptight and nervous when meeting her is because she is highly connected and coming from her right brain. And her mating system is directly connected to her right brains “Emotional” communication center. Now that alone means absolutely freaking nothing, I mean unless you already understand the right brain as in; The right brain is where the 5 senses are directly connected. And by birth women automatically use the right brain. Now, sure women do use the left, logical brain as well and very well in fact. But men do not use the right brain nearly as much as most women use the left brain.

More tips:

#3 Now, another thing I teach in my course over and over is “Internal Awareness!

Now, how you do this, is by having your awareness inside your body! It’s that easy! And this also helps you relax and open up to your larger brain, which again, triggers her mating system instinctually to mate with you! She can’t help it.

* So, here’s more of how you do this. When you are talking to her, put your awareness inside your body, say inside your chest and stomach area. And if you can, at the same time, also on your entire upper back. See, what this does, especially when you put your awareness onto your back is that it takes the visual pressure off of her that most men do unconsciously. See, when you lean forward and lock onto her visually, it “LITERALLY PUSHES HER AWAY!!!” So, how you stop doing this is by #1 Breathing deeply in a relaxed and calm manner, while #2 you put your awareness inside your body! You do these 2 things while carrying on a conversation with her, all of a sudden you will notice women breathing deep and in a relaxed way and not only will you feel comfortable automatically, but so will she. And she will enjoy communicating with you too!

#4 Another thing you can do while doing those things is be in peripheral vision at the same  time and notice your surroundings in a relaxed and comfortable way!

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You have to hear their words, see their body language, listen closely to their tonality and the “WAY” they say what they are saying. And you have to combine all of this information with what you are feeling in your body! What is your body picking up? What automatic thought or question just went through mind? Notice what you notice and be Aware of all communication within and without! Most importantly, you have to constantly ask yourself, “What is the communication behind their communication and words?” “What is their purpose for sharing this?” “What is it they are trying to truly express and communicate to me?”

Again, Look for the real communication. As I always say, “Listen to understand!” Stop!!! Stop talking! Just stop!!!! Stop thinking! Just shut that brain up! And truly listen to the person you are listening too! And finally, truly hear what they are saying! Listening to understand them is what it is all about! Period!

If you are more concerned about what you have to say or what you want to say or what you are thinking, then you just completely shut off communication! Just let gooooo… and put your ego aside and just quite your mind, go silent within and open up to receive all of their communication! And that includes the tonality, tempo and rhythm all combined with the picture they are literally painting with their body language and movement! Now that’s listening to understand and will create more clarity than you have ever created before!

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But, here’s the deal, this is not the male way, this is the Female way of Romantic Seduction!

And this is what she has always wanted from you!

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Learn how to turn her on with your words alone, Not your Wallet! 

See, Mother Nature hid 3 Secret Keys from the male brain, but women don’t know this. They just assume that you are wired the same way they are! But you are not! And this is why women get mad! But, there is an Answer, and it’s Awesome!

When you rely on paying for gifts, dinners, flowers, etc. they, women eventually get really, really mad at you because they think you don’t care about them and you are taking a short cut! Emotionally, this hurts her deeply! And she thinks you are doing it on purpose! Thus the war begins, the Battle of the Sexes!

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Dig in Deep Guys and Gals, this one is going to be deep, powerful and life Changing! This is all about Kicking Ass! Cuz we’re here to win!!!

So, sorry I haven’t written in the last few days!

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But first, lets learn the most powerful thing you will ever, ever, ever, ever learn. In fact, I truly believe it is the very reason we are all here on this planet having this experience in the first place! So come on, let’s learn the #1 Secret to making this experience on this earth a wild and amazing experience together!

So, you want to meet the girl or girls of your dreams, Right!!!

Are you sure? Because the real truth, the real answer, that is more powerful than my entire course, is going to be revealed!

I have 1 Question for you. Just one! And this one question if you take it seriously, will change your entire life and will shift your entire future experiences Now! Ready?

Do you Love Yourself?

I mean that. Do you Love Yourself? Do you really Love yourself? Because no one else can truly love you until you can accept and love yourself. And yes, you do deserve to love yourself and be loved by others. It’s literally that simple! Period! You are WELCOME!!!

Do you want to know what the Secret is to those guys who are so called Naturals? You know, the guys who have never taken a course on how to be a Pickup artist or how to meet women? You know, that guy in high school who, for some reason could meet any girl he wanted and get her into bed.

Do you want to know what the Secret is to most of those people who are successful in life, business, sports, music, etc.? On some level, they all deeply, deeply love themselves and they know they are worth it! Now they might have other issues, etc. but, they do Love themselves deeply!

If you think Self Love is a goofy, funny, wishy washy thing, you are only fooling yourself!

Self Love is Personal Power! Those who have it have Power and get more of what they want in life!

So, you come to me and you say, “Hey Mike, I really want to learn how to meet girls, I suck at it!” Well, let me tell you something, every single client I have worked with has had 1 single common problem!

Lack of Self Love!

Now, here is the deal. Women have a radar system in them that can tell when a man loves himself. To a woman, it’s pretty damn obvious. In fact, I am finally at the point where I can see it in a person. I am sitting her right now at a Cafe in San Rafael, Ca. near San Francisco Ca..

And I can look at a person and see if they love themselves. And to the extent that they do is equivalent that they enjoy life and also the level of money they make. No, I am definitely not saying that money is the defining factor, but an abundance of money is definitely a part of the flow of it!

See, if you truly, truly and or to the extent that you love yourself, is the extent that you will approach that cute girl. It is the extent that you will stand up for yourself, because you don’t have this inner voice saying you are not good enough or don’t deserve that or that or that. In fact, your inner voice will begin to be on your side and get your back. Your Inner Voice is your Best Friend! Period! So you need to start loving yourself and telling yourself Thank you, I Love you, I am on your side. Say Good things to yourself. It really, really works!

See, most people are looking for someone else to love them and fill that void in their heart or chest or gut with their Love! And once that happens, you begin to lose your own power. But, if you are full of Self love, all of a sudden you won’t let that person disrespect you or hurt you in any way, because you Love yourself! And this will give you more Social power, Business power, negotiation power in life, love and relationships of all kinds!

Are you following me here peeps? Look, True Self Love is very, very healthy. It gives you self esteem, inner confidence which a lot of pickup courses are calling inner game and teaching you how to do it externally, which, really doesn’t work. Ok, let’s put it this way!

True, healthy Self Love = Self Esteem, Self Confidence, Ambition, Determination, Inner Game, etc. it’s the reason this guy consistently wins in everything he does from sports to business, sales, love, etc.

Love is The Answer!

Now, have you ever noticed how what other people say about others is really about themselves? We are living in unprecedented times. With the media, news, internet, we can now post our thoughts on a yahoo news article and blogs and everything. Have you ever noticed how you are about to post something very positive about the article and then you see someone else post the complete opposite?

Or how about this? Have you ever noticed how there will be an article on a famous sports athlete or actor, singer, etc and there will be a ton of negative comments? And yet you were about to post a positive thought or maybe you were going to post a negative thought and you saw some very positive thoughts. So, what is this really about?

It’s all about you and what you think about yourself within! And it is always expressed through your thoughts, ideas and opinions that you express all the time! And this applies to all those people posting on those chat boards!

Now, instead of getting mad at yourself, truly love yourself, truly forgive yourself and in a way, give yourself a hug, a thoughtful hug of warmth and love and just be accepting of yourself, because if you punish yourself, you are separating yourself from you!

Have you ever heard Jesus Say “I am?”

You remember they killed himself for this right? Well, what was he really saying? He was saying, I, my mind and Am, my body! If you have studied any form of Healing arts or therapy from Psychology to Hypnosis, to NLP, etc. you will clearly learn and know that humans are divided from themselves. Most of us punish ourselves to death! And thus get divided from ourselves.

They killed him because he was saying, I am connected to me! I am one! It’s all about becoming 1 with yourself. But, the problem is, other people can’t control you if you can, and I quote her, “THINK FOR YOURSELF!” Do you see that, get that? You think self! Mind thinks with self! You are now listening to your “SELF!” Now that’s where you get your power from! This is true Power! Your power! It’s yours, you were born with it! My entire course is about teaching you how to reconnect, tune in and be best friends, teammates with yourself!

A divided man is a weak, lost and confused man! A Connected man is a man of power who can achieve and succeed!

See, your mind is the I person! It is a real being.

And your body / heart is the Am being. And the 2 of you have to Love each other! In fact, that is what this entire journey is all about. For you to Fall in Love with Yourself! You + Self = I am! Thus you are whole and complete.

I won about 90% of all my competitions in Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling and Football. And I will tell you what. At the time, I Loved myself, talked to myself and together, we stepped into the ring of battle and we conquered as one! Now that’s Power. I will have to admit though, that the people I loved nad some friends did almost everything they could to divide me, not to mention other factors. And you know what? It worked, I was fooled, I was tricked by false love! I guess I had a lot more learning, growing and self love to do.

It practically crippled me for years and years. But, I have it back. I know what it is consciously now and I know how to reconnect and constantly strengthen that connection with myself! “I LOVE MYSELF!” And now I can Love you and build you back up to become one with yourself.

You have to Love your heart and body!

Now, why is this? Because the more you love you, the more other people can Love you! And women especially can sense this in a man powerfully! When a man Loves himself, he doesn’t let women walk all over him. He doesn’t let women jerk him around. He doesn’t let other people take advantage of him. Why? Because he loves himself & respects himself And that triggers her mating system to fall in Love with, be infatuated with and turned on by you! And a man who loves himself is going to be a better mate! And thus she will respect him better and be with a better man!
Have you ever heard, “If you can’t provide for yourself, how are you going to provide for anyone else?” See, if you can’t afford to take care of yourself, how in the hell are you going to take care of anyone else? You can’t!

It’s the exact same with Love!

If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you  going to be able to Love anyone else? You cant! You don’t even have enough love for yourself. You don’t even know how to Love yourself!

Now let’s take Kim Kardashian or Nicki Manaj or Rihanna and Chris Brown. All very, very controversial people. Or, take someone who you genuinely think is a really, really good person all the way around.

How many times have you been absolutely shocked at how some people will attack anyone for any reason? Even that great person who you sincerely, genuinely believe to be a good person. And yet people attack that person for no reason. So what is this really about?

Well, those people who have bad thoughts, opinions about others are really talking about themselves. They are indirectly expressing their views of themselves.

Have you ever had someone say bad things about you that just were not true at all? And yet they totally believed it no matter what you said. And worse, they admitted they had no actual evidence and even said, “Well, you can just tell you are that way!”

Well, they are literally expressing their own emotions, thoughts and opinions, and not yours. It’s them they are unconsciously talking about. Turns out that little childhood phrase, “I know you are, but what am I?” You know the old adage where the friend says, “You are what you say!” And you know what? Turns out they are right!

* Isn’t it kind of a trip that we as little kids on some level already knew this?

Sooooooooooooooooo what are you saying about others? And what is the energy behind it? Is it hate filled, angry, hurtful? Because it is all your energy about yourself. If it’s hate filled, then you have a lot of hate towards yourself. If it’s hurtful, then you are hurtful towards yourself. Think about it. When you make mistakes, are you kind to yourself, or do you say awful, horrible things to yourself? Now Stop it! And Love yourself. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind and nurturing to yourself. Be Good to yourself. And remember, the more gentle and kind you can be with yourself, the more gentle and kind you will be with others!

The energy/emotions you express are your emotions! Period! They are coming from within you!

I know, I know, it really doesn’t seem that it will make any difference, but it does. Sure, sure, it takes time, but so what! So start right now. Go to the nearest mirror and look yourself in the eyes, notice your eyes, smile, nose, wrinkles, whatever. And just tell yourself that you love yourself and you are doing the best you can. Say kind words to you! And do this a lot, every day and night and in between, because over time it really starts to change everything. Other people will begin to start treating you better. If you are a single guy, girls will start to smile at you! Etc.. Yes, this works for women as well. It even works for little doggies as well… hehe…

Right now a young, tiny little girl about 3 or 4 years old just sat down next to me with big bright, beautiful eyes. All wide eyed and sparkly. She is sooooooo curious and adventurous. When she was outside, she walked right up to this man and his doggie and petted the doggie and started talking to the man. Her dad was a bit surprised.

Then she came in and sat right next to me and looked right up into my eyes. So what did I do? I was gentle and calm and smiled gently back. So start loving yourself. Be Gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. And start feeling and saying and picturing good things for yourself and to yourself! Because, your “SELF”, your emotions, your body is young and open  and curious and adventurous like that little girl. She just wants to understand, learn and be loved. And so does your “SELF!” It’s just a tiny little child inside!

* Your “SELF” is very, very sensitive and needs to hear positive, loving things from you so desperately. Your self is just like that young, young little 3 or 4 year old girl. Stop hurting her within. She’s just a girl. Learn to love her and teach her. She wants to make you happy, she really does!

The Fact of the Matter, the only person who can truly Love you is you! When you start to Love yourself, truly love yourself, then you will have the ability to walk around with a bubble of Loving energy surrounding you and thus making the world a better place! And it will help other people to Love themselves and you as well.

Now, here is another powerful question. Have you noticed that people who love themselves tend to get what they want out of Life? At least a lot more than others? When you see Kim Kardashian, Chris Brown, Rihanna and yourself, do you see the Beauty in them? Well, if you want to help this world become a better place, then you better start… Because that is what’s wrong with the world.

* Remember, it’s not about being perfect, it never was! We are all learning and growing and at different stages. And that’s ok! We are all Artistic, Beautiful nad Amazing Master Pieces in the process of being painted.

I am going to stand up right now for you! Yes, right now! Whoever told you to not love yourself was making a huge, huge mistake! The very purpose God put you here was for you to remember how to love yourself! The more you learn how to Love yourself the more you allow others to love you and experience your love; thus making the world a more loving place for everyone!

Now back to single men! Do you really want to know the Secret to meeting all the Beautiful, sexy, cute girls in the world? Fall in Love with yourself so she can feel your love and fall in love with you! It’s a much healthier way to engage and meet someone on any and every level. And it make it soooooooooooo much easier to attract and meet anyone, including girls. Oh, and it’s a lot more fun too!

Rihana just came out with another amazing song – Diamonds “We are Beautiful like Diamonds in the sky!” And you know what? She’s right. We are all beautiful like diamonds in they sky!

I began to find that the more I actually started to love myself, the less I hated others who were rich and famous. I began to see how amazing they are. For example. Did you know how much Kim Kardashian made last year alone? OMG!!!

The reality starlet took the number two spot on this year’s Forbes’ list of the highest paid actresses on TV, raking in an astonishing $18 million last year, followed closely behind by younger sister Khloe Kardashian, who came in at number five with $11 million.
Source: Forbes

The fact of the matter is, she is a brilliant, brilliant girl, because there are thousands and thousands of other beautiful models and actress’s and actors trying to make this kind of money and they are not even coming close. She is a lot smarter than most people realize.

And you know what? She truly loves herself? Do you? How’s our bank account? See…

Like her or not, she is a freaking Genius at working it big time. Now that is an Entrepreneur right there.

Now another celebrity is Jessica Simpson. She is making a killing in the fashion industry. Guess how Much? In the Huffington post, it says she is set to make $1 Billion dollars! Hahahahahahaa… $1 Billion. And you keep calling her a ditzy blond! hahaha… Trust me, she and Kim are laughing all the way to the bank. And you are sitting there bitching! See how that works? I’m serious! Do you see how the Universe or life works now???? LOVE YOURSELF!!! And the world will love you back in many different ways!

So, again, my question to you: Do you Love yourself? Well you better get on it!

Now here is another thing. I noticed that I actually started having compassion for Kim Kardashian. I mean, I really never liked her or got her. But then something changed. I one day just stopped and I just looked at her and listened to her. For the first time I actually saw her instead of seeing her through all that fake Judgement of others or even mine. Seriously, for the first time I saw her. I really, really saw her. And I noticed, she has really cute, cute eyes. I Love them, they are so beautiful, amazing actually! Is she perfect? In the eyes of God, absolutely. God Loves her and all of us. I will tell you, there is a beautiful, beautiful girl inside Kim. And yes, she is learning and growing, just like the rest of us. Hating on her will only hurt yourself, because that is who you are really hating. It’s purely a projection of who you are within. So learn to love others and in so doing you have loved yourself. As Jesus said, “Do unto others as you’d have them do unto you!” Now you know what that means!

And I began to notice how I almost began to fall in love with the beauty of others and myself! Something shifted, something changed. And all of a sudden life became beautiful. I finally, finally opened my eyes to see what I saw! Good or bad, ugly or pretty, I just looked at it with new, fresh eyes, for the first time. and all of a sudden I saw Beauty every where! Life is Beautiful! And that Beauty is everywhere! You just have to open your eyes.

Note: If you are struggling with life. If life is not Beautiful to you! Please, please let me show you how to open your eyes and see that life is truly, truly beautiful. It’s not too late to save this world. And it’s not too late to live a beautiful life with more riches in every way from being wealthy to love to beautiful women, people, etc. Life can be good.

I am not saying I am perfect. In fact, it’s not about being perfect. It never was. That was the mistake. It’s just about treating yourself with Love, respect and dignity, just being compassionate for yourself and others. When you make a mistake, don’t be so harsh! Just learn from it and be compassionate all the way around.

And remember, every single person is merely an extension of who you are! So Love them and in so doing, you are actually loving yourself. Trust me it is a much better way to live life and will change your entire world a lot faster than you may realize now!

Have you ever noticed that those people who truly love themselves on a deep level are so much more enjoyable to be around, but those people who don’t accept and love themselves are fairly negative with ugly energy and negative comments about everything?

Well, get away from them! Love yourself enough to get away from those negative, self hating people. You can’t make them love themselves and be loving or kind to others. That has to come from within themselves. They are going to have to do their own personal development and work on themselves. You can’t do it for them, so let them do their own work.

There is an Amazing song that just came out by Neo! It says, “Girl Let me Love you! Until you can love yourself!” Well, I am not 100% sure if this is how it works, but I do believe that loving others can eventually lead them to love themselves  or at least create a loving space so they can choose to love themselves, so eventually they can then love others and you as well. But that does not mean to allow them to abuse you or take responsibility for them learning how to love themselves and others. You simply have to learn to let go and allow them to find their own way.

I do know that for children, they do respond to being purely loved and can lead  into the world in this self loving way knowing they are Loved. But, eventually they have to learn how to Love themselves!

So remember, if you catch yourself kicking your ass and berating, belittling yourself, just be ok with it and gently start to say kind words to yourself. There’s not reason to get more mad at yourself for getting mad at yourself and then getting mad at yourself for getting mad at yourself for getting mad at yourself… Damn!!! That’s just a spin around the donkey show right there…. hahahaa…

So, Men!!! What is the #1 Key Secret to meeting the girl or girls of your dreams? And ladies and Doggies, this applies to you too!

Answer: Be in Love with yourself! Be good to yourself so she can feel your Love and fall madly, deeply, head over heals in love with your Love!!! Period end of sentence and they lived happily ever after!

Ok, I am tired… I will post the special prices for my 1 on 1 coaching, upcoming Private/Elite small group workshops and also my book.

I can tell you right now, my book costs $60 but I am going to lower the price to $25.00 and put that in the pay pal button later tonight. Right now, I need a break.

Self Love is Awesome! Remember, to say to yourself out loud, “I Love Myself!” hahaha… I say it all the time.  And I am always shocked at how many people try to chastise me for that. So i say, “Oh, so you want me to hate myself? Sorry, but to be sincere with you, I truly do Love myself! And that is a good, healthy thing!”
Ok, peeps, be back in a few hours!

Ok, I am back and I have cut the price of my book to more than 50% off, from $60.00 down to $25.00. And I am throwing in a 1 hour phone consultation or in person session. That alone is a $125 Value! Today’s dates is February 17, 2012. Offer is only good until February 28th. A few days left to get this deal now. Here’s the Link: http://mikekollin.com/books-and-resources/  But the book will remain $25 for now! So come on and buy it, find out.

Ok, but first a few more Powerful and Amazing thoughts.

To the single guys! Look, the most Powerful form of Seduction is Self Love! A woman’s heart will absolutely melt and swoon when she finds a man who truly has a powerful form of genuine, healthy self love! So Fall in Love with yourself from your heart, not your ego! Ego is not Love!

See, if you truly, truly love and care for yourself, you will Care for yourself, love yourself and have self respect. And to any woman, that makes a man her King! And trust me, she wants to be with a King! So, Be her King and fall in Love with yourself! And ladies, be his King and Fall in Love with yourself! Note: I did not say be arrogant or bossy or controlling or negative in any way shape or form. This is not about Ego at all, this is about Genuine self Love! Now that’s Power! And other people will notice!

Now, I want to add 1 more thing.

When you have true, solid, powerful self love, all of a sudden the power is in your hands and not hers. Here’s what I mean. When you are In Love with yourself to the degree that she can’t use her love or sex or anything to manipulate you, because you Love yourself enough to not be jerked around, all of a sudden you have power over yourself! Now you can walk away from any woman or any person who isn’t treating you with respect and honoring you as a person.

Now here is the cool thing. A females mating system is wired to respond to be powerfully attracted to guys who are like this. See, these are the guys who don’t put up with women’s shit who disrespect them. These are the guys who speak up for themselves and value themselves and have strong boundaries, which are very attractive to women!

Ask any woman if she is looking for a guy she can walk all over, or if she would prefer a guy who has strong boundaries and stands up for himself! Trust me, every girl wants a guy who is a man who can say, “NO!” when she steps over the line! And, ask any therapist, this is the #1 Goal in therapy to get people to have self love and self respect so they can be healthy. Yes, I said healthy!

A healthy relationship is relationship where both partners respect, love and honor each other. And if you think she is just going to give that to you for no reason, you are dead wrong! You must learn how to assert yourself and expect and demand that others respect you! You do this and have strong, healthy boundaries, then you will create a happier and healthier relationship.

You can’t expect to create a healthy relationship when you are not healthy emotionally and or don’t love yourself or respect yourself enough to walk away from someone who is abusive or disrespectful. That is just not a reality!

Like attracts like! And that includes Love! Self Love Attracts Self Love!

Private, Elite Underground training this coming month in March!

Anyone who wants to learn how to pickup, turn on, Love and Romantically seduce women is welcome.

This training will be limited to 3 to 5 people max! (Male or Female)

Super Cute!

There will be 3 segments, each segment made up of 3 days each. So each level / segment is 3 days.

Level I begins on March 4th to 6th in the Morning!

Level II begins on March 11th to 13th in the afternoon!

Level III begins on 21st to 23rd in the evening!

* Super once in a life time deal on this training and this training only!

Normally I charge $125 an hour so that would be $500 per day training, as these are 4 hour trainings. But, for this training, here, I am dropping my prices for the first time to $125 for each day, to the first 5 people who come in and put a $225 deposit down. That’s a $250 savings per day. And in 3 days, that’s a $750 savings. This is a huge, huge savings. I highly recommend you take advantage of this 1 time only Elite, Private training for you!

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To my clients, read this, trust me, read this!!! Powerful Boundaries will attract her!!!

Author Mike Kollin

#1

Mike Kollin • Well, there are a bunch of factors. Women have now taken up around 50% of the work force and make more money than men. Thus more men are struggling to be able to pay for dinner.

And a lot of women don’t like it when a man opens a door for them. And some women want a man shake and others want you to shake their hands in the more traditional sense. But, they don’t tell you until after you did it the wrong way as in not the way they want…

So from a male perspective in the modern world, we get yelled at for opening doors. We get yelled at for not doing the handshake she prefers, even though we have no clue which one it is for that individual woman; it’s not like she is wearing a sign…

And women in general have completely thrown out traditional Chivalry!

The entire dating and relationship courtship has been thrown out the window by women.

So if you want to bring back tradition, you will have to go after the Female Gender and bring them back. From a males perspective, we don’t know what to do…

I tell my male clients that they should be who they are regardless of who she is. And if she doesn’t like who you are, then walk…

For example, if you like to open a door for a lady, then do so. If she balks, yells or reads you the feminist riot act, end the date immediately as you 2 are not a match.

Of if you give her a business hand shake and she gets upset or tells you that she is a woman, etc. etc. again, then walk, end the date as you 2 are not compatible.

In fact I think it is much quicker to realize if you are a match or not based on simply being yourself and if she doesn’t like it, then clearly you know it’s not going to work.

And, if you like to shake a ladies hand like a lady and she enjoys that or appreciates being treated like a lady, then hey, you are a match so far! So proceed.

I think we live in a time and an age where the social rules even for dating / courting have been thrown out of the window… There is no 1 way to approach this. So just be who you are and move on…

Another point is that even when we pay for a date/meal, we get the chastising verbiage. I personally feel for men….

But I think this is a very empowering position for men to simply exude who they are and relish in the fact that the female species as a whole is clearly not playing by the rules in this sense, which means you can truly be who you are and let that be a daily lesson in conditioning you to be who you are all the time. She will appreciate getting to know you a lot faster when you are being you!

Mike Kollin

Dating and Relationship Coach.
Male to Female Communication Expert.

http://mikekollin.com

#2

Mike Kollin • (Please read with a bit of tongue n cheek and laughter!)

After having more than a few women Chastise me & other men verbally, in public for merely opening a door, I stopped opening doors for women and simply open it for myself and walk in. After having more than 100s of women chastise me for shaking their hand the way my grand mother and mother taught me to do, I merely shake every woman’s hand as if they are full grown 6′ tall, 200 pound business man, firm, tight and direct, to the point! If they don’t like it, well, too bad!

My point, it’s not up to the male species to bring back Chivalry. It’s up to the Female species to play by the rules or simply let men be men as in opening doors, proper hand shake, pulling out chairs, etc.

Until then, I suggest men treat women as Full Grown, Masculine men, until they women, as a society, group want to be treated as women. Because from a man’s perspective, “How in the hell are we supposed to know who wants their door opened and who doesn’t? Who wants their chair pulled out and who doesn’t? Who wants to be treated like a lady and who doesn’t? To say the least it’s very confusing. And after getting screamed at for merely opening a door multiple times, I’m personally done!

I find it quite odd how a human would yell at someone for being courteous and polite!

Odd!

Ladies, maybe you ought to have a meet and greet with each other and make a decision because once again as you all have heard on TV, movies, in public and in person, “MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS!!!” We have no clue what you are thinking or what you want!” So please give up that hope that men can magically mind read you!

If you want us to know what you are thinking, put a huge, massive, big n bold, neon sign above your head that tells us what you are thinking and what you want!

That ought to help.

My point.

This point is mute and ridiculous that men should even consider playing these idiotic social games.

Men, stand up, be proud and stop putting up with this childish game with women. Until you do, they will jerk you around…

Of course, if you have a sweet, feminine lady you are dating or married to who you know enjoys being treated like a lady, by all means, of course pull out that chair and open that door and treat her as if you are Knight in Shining Armor! Why not!

In fact, be upfront, direct and blunt when you first meet her, before you go out, ask her if she likes it when men open doors and pull out chairs and are chivalrous.

Until then open that door up and put yourself first. You too deserve to be treated like a King! Besides, women love it when they find a true King! It’s true you know! So Be the King!

Mike Kollin
Dating & Relationship Coach
Male to Female Communication Expert

http://MikeKollin.com