I know it seems like life is nothing but pain when we are at this point. And may even say, what’s the point of all of this if it doesn’t work out? Well, that is a very, very, very powerful and great question. Because those powerful questions coming from our powerful pain is exactly what will lead us into a deeper, more amazing journey in life that will help us to learn and grow and expand.

Now, I am not one of those people who just blindly say, “Oh, you are going to grow so much and learn so much more”, without also saying, “And, you are going to create the greatest life worth living.” “You are going to be happier than you could or have ever, ever imagined!” “Your life is going to prosper from this and you are going to have so much more power over yourself, your life and life in general.” “And all of that will open you up to living the life of your dreams.”

I do personally know this from a personal or a lot of personal painful experiences that just wouldn’t end. Some how, some way, I made it through all of it. I will tell you this, it wasn’t easy, but it, every ounce of energy of facing myself, being honest with myself and seeing my own faults and my own patterns that were creating all this pain and hurt is exactly what made the biggest difference in my life!

I did every form of therapy I could find. I did the techniques and exercises like my life depended on it, because in a way it did… I wanted so much more from life than just pain. You can begin to change your life right now simply by picking up a book on personal development, relationship, communicatin, etc. Also by finding a really, really good energy healer or therapist or NLP trainer or Hypnotherapist who is highly, highly trained, just like me! hahaha…

Find someone who is very, very grounded and knows what they are doing; someone who will  hold you accountable and keep you honest with yourself. Because that is The Secret To overcoming all your challenges and is absolutely necessary for breaking your Negative patterns. But, remember, your patterns are also a gift. If you can begin to see your own negative patterns and how they attract and create these painful situations, you have just found the key to creating a life worth living!

Here’s the letter to my friend:

WEll, we have all been hurt and lost love that really, really, really mad us sad, cry and hurt really, really bad… Find a way to make it through this and learn everything you can from this… Find a coach, a therapist, read books on relationships, dating, personal development…

But mostly you need to learn what it is that you need to learn about you and heal inside…what are your patterns that draw and or create these situations that hurt so badly, yet are powerfully wanting to teach you something so powerful that it will open you up to a larger, greater existence on this planet…

 Keep on searching, keep on learning and growing and in a few years, maybe a few more, you will look back to today, to this email and realize how much you have grown and how much more powerful you are as a person and spirit and soul… And how much more power you have over your life, your choices and your existence… Life can and will be a lot more happier and funner… Trust me, I know, I have been there and now I am here!

 Take the steps!

 Bless you!

Mike Kollin!

To all of you Bless you and may you find your patterns and see them and then watch them melt and disapear and watch the power come back into your heart, hands and mind. It’s your power! So learn how to use it for a better, happier and more successful life!

Your Love and Relationship Coach and NLP Trainer/Master Hypnotherapist!

P.s. with the New Discoveries Taught in my course, you will find an amazing insight into what causes so much misunderstood pain and can then learn how to create a much more powerful loving relationship! These New Answers Will Heal your Heart and Realtionship! Come learn how!

Saving your marriage and bring the Love, Fun and Pleasure back!

But now it is a realistic art!

Men and women simply are not wired the same for anything! Love, Sex, Relationships, communication, emotional fulfillment, mental stimulation, emotional fulfillment, nothing! And nobody, I mean nobody has actually “Cracked the Female Code”. At least until now!

We are neurologically and physically wired completely differently for everything! The way a man tries to attract a women, turn a women on, seduce a women, even just talk/communicate with a women is so completely different, that it actually makes her raging angry/mad!!! So stop it!!! Stop thinking that paying for dinner is a sexual turn on for a women and will lead to sex, because it clearly and I mean clearly does not! But there is something that she wants and needs from you that is so much more powerful and directly triggers her mating system, thus turning her on sexually! And makes her want to have sex with you!

And guess what, it’s all taught in my courses! Yep, that’s right, actually learning how to fulfill a woman’s heart with Love and emotionally fulfilling words will lead her right, directly into the bedroom. But, you have to learn how! And trust me, she will absolutely love you for this form of communication and clarity and will open her arms and heart to you once again! She needs this from you! She needs to be loved in this female way and turned on and mentally stimulated in this very, very, very powerful way! You literally can’t imagine How Powerful this form of Love is! It is absolutely the most amazing thing I have ever learned in my entire life! It has absolutely changed my relationship with women!

So give yourselves a break!

Seriously, right now, just give yourselves a break. Men and women are sooooooo completely different that even the experts are blind! They literally are the blind leading the blind. Now if you think that is a Bold statement, then let me put it this way! After you take the first 3 levels of my course, you will clearly and I mean clearly see where all the Love and Relationship experts have completely missed the mark! You! Yes, You will have a much, much greater understanding of the opposite sex than even the experts.

Welcome to the Love Doctor’s Blog and to your future Love and relationship coaching expert!

Love and Relationships don’t have to be as hard as it has been! There really is a new teaching and new discovery that teaches men how to clearly, clearly understand women, turn women on and satisfy women mentally, emotionally and physically/sexually! Love can be fun again!

The Theme for this posting / Blog has to do with actual Love Relationships, where you are madly, head over heals in Love yet both of you just argue and fight and can’t seem to make it work…

Well, there is nothing and I mean nothing sadder than being madly in Love only to find no matter how hard you try the worse it gets! I’ve been through it 2 times. And I have seen hundreds, thousands, even more couples who are madly in Love, but they don’t trust each other or receive Love IN the way that they need to receive it!

Go ahead and re read that last sentence. See, men and women recieve Love in the opposite direction of each other. And guess how we try to Love each other? Yep, that’s right. We try to Express and give our love in the way that we recieve Love! And that simply does not meet the opposite sexes needs at all.

See, there is the Left Brain, logical, EXTERNAL way of expressing Love. You know, the Male form of love. Buying things, paying for things! The external world of things! It’s a nice Gesture. It’s merely a starting point.

But I absolutely guarantee you that if you learn how to communicate and express your love in the right brains Mentally stimulating and Emotionally fulfilling way, she will not only melt back into your arms, completely open up, she will actually understand you!

Now in order to do this, you will have to learn #1 How to open up to your right brain. Because the male Love system is hard wired through his left external brain. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I have heard I have heard so many men say they are very right brain, blah, blah, blah, blah… Now I am not trying to be disrespectful. I am really attempting to reach you on a deep level and tell you, that beyond a shadow of a doubt, the form of Love and Expressoin is so foreign, odd to you, that no matter how artistic or creative you think you are, this is a completely different form of Love that will blow you away. And the really cool thing is, that it will actually open you up to a brand new world that has always been right in front of your eyes, yet you completely missed it.

So many men egotistically believe they get it, see it, understand and know what this is, but they have zero clue! Yes, I am actually challenging you to challenge your own ego nad put aside everything you think you know and actually learn something completely differently than what you thought you knew. Because this my friends is THE ANSWER she has always wanted you to know!

It’s really up to you to want to learn how to Save your marriage! Add this new found relationship Key that not even the Experts are aware of! Again, It’s completely up to you to learn this! Or fail miserably in relationships again and again and again…

And if you are single, yes, this will absolutely teach you how to meet the girl of your dreams and / or date as many cuties as you desire until you are ready to settle down with that one special girl.

I Love you all and wish you all the very, very Best in Life, Love and Relationships…

Give us a call here at MGK Enterprises and “Crack the Female Code” It’s the Greatest turn on your wife or girlfriend will ever receive! Call now and set up an appointment. Or just call for a free 15 to 30 minutes consultation.

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No, you are not stupid… You are In Love!

Love Can be hell… (But now, it doesn’t’ have to be. There is an Answer!)

Simply put, Love is Life!

Love is the hardest, most challenging thing in the world!!! There is nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing that will tear your heart to shreds yet at the same time push you, motivate you and inspire you to greater heights of Love and Effort and creativity than Falling in Love, being in Love! Love clearly has pushed mankind to greater heights of everything…

Isn’t it funny or odd how the most Beautiful thing in the world can hurt you so deeply? I have seen it happen to so many people. In fact almost everyone who has ever lived has been hurt so deeply by this thing we call LOVE!!! Yet, we all deeply yearn for this very one thing.

It’s so deeply, deeply sad that 2 people can fall madly, head over heals in Love only to find that after a few years or more they become absolutely complete strangers to each other! (What’s the Missing Key?)

Have you been lost? Have you been so confused, so lost that no matter what you do it just simply doesn’t work??? Did you do everything in your power only to find out that you came up short, leaving you feeling completely exhausted, lifeless and hopeless without an ounce of energy? Truly feeling and believing in every cell in your body, to your very core that you have absolutely lost at love and have nothing more to give?

When I was a child, My father and mother fought like cats and dogs and yet no matter what my father did, with all his heart and soul he loved my mother yet she never truly believed my father Loved her.

A few years before my father died, out of no where, on a bright, beautiful sunny day in Mountain View California, walking with him down his driveway, he just suddenly burst into tears. And just shouted out, “If God is so great, why did God make it so hard to Love a woman?” “No matter what I did, your mother would get mad and upset and run off crying!” “I’d buy her dozens and dozens of Roses, fill the entire entry way and living room with gifts and flowers, I would make her Extravagant dinners with Hula dancers, Torches, music,  yet she still got upset and mad at me!” Hint – Guys this is not Love to a women! If you rely on this male form of expressing your love, you are doomed to a very painful relationship that will end badly. Because women can not recieve Deep Love and Emotional Fulfillment through the Male from of expressing Love!

As I am writing this right now, I am in tears… This memory was seared into my memory, my vision. This 1 event changed my entire life and sent me on a 24 year journey to find the Answers. It wasn’t even a conscious Journey. I read the bible. No, I studied the Bible Literally like my life depended on it. At the time I didn’t even realize what I was looking for. 12 years of doing a linguistic analysis and deep study of every word and what it meant 2,000 years ago when it was written in it’s original language. I studied psychology in college for years, and went to every single course I could on Hypnosis, Communication and psychology, energy healing, every single thing I could get my hands on!

Well it doesn’t’ have to be that way anymore! I am here to tell you that there are real, powerful answers that actually work and open up your heart to each other once again! You don’t have to blindly suffer anymore! There literally is an answer that will open your eyes and finally allow you two, to finally be able to reconnect on that deeper, more emotionally fulfilling and meaningful level. Fun, joy, happiness and pleasure can all be possible again.

The Last Song!

I am sorry to say, the Love and Relationship experts are just as blind as you are! They are not coming from the right place of Love and Understanding!Because they don’t know the Secret to Love, Attraction and how to Love a women in the Female way!

Know right now, my course is not about teaching you a bunch of ridiculous rules based on someones value system or belief system… Why? Because that simply does not work, because we are all different and we all have a different set of values and rules and beliefs that we operate off of. Besides, following rules will never fill a woman’s heart with Love! Buying her things and paying for dinners, flowers, etc. is not Love to a women. Instead, my course is about teaching you how to see and experience the world from the other persons perspective from true, universal understandings.

I personally know that if you can Understand women from their perspective and from their understanding, an entire new world of Deep, Deep Love and Understanding will open up to you and be right in front of your very eyes. You will open up to Heaven!

Love and Understanding!

My entire course is all about Love and Understanding on all levels; mentally, emotionally and physically/sexually/energetically!

This course is the first full and complete course that answers the challenges men and women have! This course will clearly and I mean clearly open your eyes to what’s going on and how to fulfill the opposite sex with all the Love and Emotional fulfillment that need to feel close to you, to love you and be at one with you!

This my friends is all about one thing and one thing only, LOVE! Now that I have said that, I have to admit that Love is not easy, Love is complex! Love is painful! Love is the Greatest teacher to mankind. Love is the Ultimate healing, nurturing and fulfilling source on the planet and in the Universe. And I truly believe mankind’s journey is to tap into and open up to this All Knowing, All Powerful Source! In fact, I believe that it is right there inside each and everyone of us, in every cell, in every molecule and every atom in our entire body, world and Universe. Why do I believe this? Because it is. This is not a belief of mine. This is an actual fact based on personal experience and knowing!

Over the years, it has been extremely challenging to advertise and market this business to men and women. Mostly because men and women think so differently and receive love so completely differently, that if I try to market it in the male way for men to relate and understand, it turns off women. But if I communicate this and advertise this in the female way, then men get bored, tired and drift off.

And because many, many men think that Romance has nothing to do with Ecstasy and pleasure. What most men don’t realize is that Romance leads from a very polite, kind set of gestures, all the way into a very steamy, erotic and very, very passionately explosive level of deep connections on an emotional and physical level that women highly, highly desire. In fact, this from of XXX Romance is very much needed. But, the challenge is, that Mother nature wired us so completely differently that men literally don’t understand or get it.

Why? Because mother nature hid this from of Romance and communication from the male brain. The male mating system is wired through his optic nerve into his eyes, thus men are very visual when it comes to Sex and Expressing Love. Thus men think Romance is paying for dinner and buying flowers. Yes ladies, men actually believe that if he pays for that expensive steak or dead meat for dinner, that you will be romanced and turned on, ready for sex! Hint -Once again men, the male form of expressing Love and Romance is not the way women receive Love and Romance at all. So no matter how much money you spend, it does not fill her heart with Love! But, Lucky for you, that is what my entire course is all about!

There is a form of Right brain Communication that is highly mentally stimulating and so emotionally fulfilling that she will literally melt in your arms and absolutely willingly and wantingly surrender to her Romantic Hero! (Remember, opening doors and following these social rules is not romance and definitely not a sexual turn on and neither is getting your hair cut or car waxed! hahaha…

The only reason I am laughing, is because Mother Nature played a huge, massive and cruel joke on Mankind. But it really wasn’t a joke. It does have a higher purpose, which I will explain in my course! I will tell you this though. When men hear women say they want a man who knows how to communicate, it is not the male, left brains logical form of communication. In fact it’s the complete and total opposite of that! Trust me, nothing will bore a woman more than logical communication on an expensive dinner date. That will only get you the traditional, “Oh, I have a headach I think I am just going to go home for the night.” Or if you are lucky, a quick kiss on the cheek, you’re such a nice guy!”

Guys!!! She does not want a nice guy! That was not a compliment at all. She was bored to tears. She wants a man, a Beast, A Take Charge Caveman that knows how to lead her from a nice, calm, romantic dinner into a heated, passionately fulfilling experience with only her tonight!

But, that is easier said than done! There is a lot to learn, but each and every step is worth it. When you open up a women’s heart and truly capture her attention, she will be all yours and you will experience a truly deeper, more meaningful connection that you have never experienced before you in your entire life time! Now that’s Love!

Biggest Mistake most men make is they think after getting divorced, it was because they were not compatible. So they believe all they have to do is find a women who is compatible with them. Well, that is only 1 part. There is a universal thing that all and I mean all women want and universally agree on because women are hard wired to receive love in this specific way! Yet men don’t know of this!

But now you can learn what this Mystery, this Hidden Secret is for more Dating and Relationship Power!

The better you get at this, the more you will:

* Easily improve Social Skills with this New found skill set.

* Gain Tremendous Social Power with a few basic understandings.

* Increase your Social Influence easily with some fundamental adjustments.

* Add more Love and Pleasure to your Relationship.

* Easily meet more cute girls so you can finally meet the girl of your dreams and choice!

Give us a call and find out what this New Discovery is all about: 415 456 8558

http://mikekollin.com/

She will be Glad you did!

LOVE & UNDERSTANDING IS YOUR POWER IN LIFE, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS!

How he met the girl of his dreams!

How many times have I posted and written on here that men and women are so different, that even when we try to express our Love to each other, we actually hurt each other?

Wouldn’t it be great if there actually was a real answer that actually worked and helped men and women finally not only get along, but actually, freely, fully and completely understand each other and show each other how to Love each other in a way that is actually fun, romantic and extremely XXX Passionate?

Do you remember those amazing feelings you had when you first met? You know all the hormones and energy just shooting through your entire body!!!

My Father and my mother fought like cats and dogs sooooooooooo badly because they were normal, just like you and me! THEY DIDN’T UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER!!! When my Dad tried to love and express Love to my mother, it just hurt her badly! Just keep reading!

See, the problem is that mother nature purposely hid this communication, romance and Love understanding from the male brain and or from each other because Mother nature wanted to make sure that the most intelligent mated with the strongest and healthiest. In other words, The Strong Survive!

But, here is the GREAT NEWS!!! My course has literally blown that door wide open! The male brain now can learn how to communicate in a way that actually romantically and passionately turn women on in a way that fills her heart with deep emotional love!

There is absolutely no reason any more to not  know how to love your partern or if you are single how to meet, approach and romantically attract the girl of your dreams. With these new undersatndings that are taught in my course, you can easily be that man every girl dreams of!

And for women, there is a deep, deep understanding for you to understand the male brain/mating system and why men simply don’t get it. It’s not their fault, they are just being men in many ways. Unfortunately for you, you usually misunderstand this and believe he is trying to hurt your feelings, but he is not. In fact many of the times he is deeply, deeply expressing his love. AND THIS IS WHAT THIS ENTIRE COURSE IS ALL ABOUT.

My father and mother had this problem. Whenever he would deeply express his love and massively go out of his way to express his love to my mother, she would cry and would get enraged!!!

And you know what, all women go through this! You want to know why? Because the female from of expressing love is sooooooooooooo different from the way men express their love that women simply can’t comprehend why men are doing this let alone realize they are expressing love!

You can either go through life blind to each other, or you can take my course and finally learn the hidden secrets Mother Nature hid from both men and women!

There is an answer!

Call right now and make an appointment. There is no reason to fight and get hurt any more because of misunderstandings!

Mike Kollin 415 456 8558  – Free 30 minute consultation. Just call and ask me some questions. Let’s just have a conversation and get to know each other!

Please, give me a chance to help you and your Love life and your marriage or relationship. There is absolutely no reason to go through this pain anymore. There is an amazing, amazing Discovery that will change your life forever more!

And if you are single, I promise you, I will absolutely beyond a shadow of a doubt shed the light on your Love life! Now dating can be fun!

I am a professionally trained Personal Development coach with over 41 certifications and over 15 years experience.

RIGHT NOW YOU CAN MAKE THE DECISION OF A LIFE TIME AND FIND OUT WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON!!!

THERE IS AN ANSWER!  IT’S UP TO YOU TO FIND OUT WHAT IT IS!

DON’T WAIT ANOTHER SECOND, CALL RIGHT NOW AND JUST ASK ME SOME QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT THIS IS. TAKE THAT STEP THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE LIFE FOREVER! YES, YOUR ENTIRE LIFE! 415 456 8558  MIKE KOLLIN  San Rafael / San Francisco

Helping men understand women

understand our wives and their feelings. Understanding our better half makes for a much better relationship.
Mikes course clearly shows you the 3 missing keys that every relationship needs to successfully thrive! This is an absolute must for every man whether you are single or married!

Mikes teachings will shock you and open your eyes!

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There are very specific and unique techniques that attract women to men. And they are literally the opposite of what you think they are, and that’s why you are in the Dark when it comes to meeting all the Beautiful, Cute n Sexy girls you desire!

Yes, this is me in this picture!!!

#1 I am having a unique 1 of a kind seminar series coming up in a matter of weeks. But you have to get in now or within a few days to about 10 to 15 days to make sure you can get in on Level I. Training. Because as of right now I don’t have any other repeat Level I. Trainings coming up.

#2 I am going to let you in on a little secret. Mother nature purposely wired women in the opposite direction than men when it comes to 3 important things.

How he met the girl of his dreams!

1) The way women communicate and process language is literally the opposite of the way men communicate and process language. Yes! We literally speak 2 completely different sub or hidden languages, but men don’t know this. Now, the man who can learn how to open up to his right brain and communicate in this hidden language women speak all the time, gets all the girls. Because this triggers her mating system. And turns her on.

So, if you are relying on paying for dinners, paying for gifts, candy, expensive flowers, etc. Oh and drinks at the clubs, you are wasting your time and literally doing the opposite of what turns a woman on. And that is why a lot of girls get really pissed off at guys. Because women are waiting for something very specific, but guys never do it, but rather rely on paying for things and buying drinks. Nothing tells a women more that you don’t respect her than to pay for drinks or rely on buying things. Trust me, this really pisses women off and tells her that you are stupid.

2) Women receive Love in the opposite direction than the way men do. So the more you express your love to a women, the more it pisses her off!!! Because you are expressing your Love in a way that is the opposite of the way she would express or receive Love. So she is looking at you, like “What in the hell is he doing???”

3) The male mating system is directly connected to his eyes through a nerve that connects to the optic nerve that directly connects to the back of his eyes. Thus men are turned on sexually visually! And this is where men make the “Biggest” mistake when dealing with women.

You try to seduce her or turn her on visually. Ie buy candy, beautiful flowers, dress in a nice dress shirt, dress shoes, etc. etc pay for an expensive dinner in a beautiful, overly expensive restaurant, etc.

Well, here is the problem. “YOU ARE VISUALLY STIMULATED SEXUALLY, NOT HER!!!”

SHE IS STIMULATED THROUGH THIS HIDDEN FROM OF COMMUNICATION.

Her mating system is directly connected to her Right Brains Emotional Communication Center! Thus she is sexually turned on, Romanced and Seduced through this Hidden form of Right Brain Communication.

Now here is the hilarious part. Men are almost solely stuck in their Linear, Logical “LEFT BRAIN”. hahahahaha…

So when men hear her say, “I want to communicate or I need better communication”, or when a women says, “It’s all about Communication” guess what he hears???? hahahaha…

He goes oh, she wants better, logical, linear, better Left – Brain Grammatical, proper English, pronunciation, etc. etc. Hahahaha…

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

Guys, this is not what she wants… She wants Right Brain Communication. This is what we call, She says A. but he hears B. Logical.

I had a client who had his masters is Communication and another Masters in Psychology and he just couldn’t’ seem to understand women at all. So when I told him that women are looking for a better form of communication, he was stunned and said, “Well, then I should be great with women, I have a Masters in communication.” I immediately began to start laughing, because that is literally the opposite form of communication that she is looking for! And after a few more sessions he clearly began to learn this from of Right Brain, Internal Communication that turns women on powerfully!

OH yeah!!! Here’s another funny thing. When women say they want men who are more in tune with their emotions, men assume logically of course, hahahaha, that she wants him to Be Emotional and cry and whine and stuff like that… hahaha… Nothing could be further from the truth!

She is simply saying, learn how to speak my language so I can relate to you and your emotions. In other words, she doesn’t’ want you to be a cry baby and become Mr. Feminine Emotional at all…

She wants you to learn how to communicate in this right brain language, in a way that she can connect with mentally and emotionally so she can relate to what you are feeling. Because women simply can not relate or even realize when men are expressing their emotions at all, period!

You could be Angry or feeling powerful or feeling really calm, cool and down to earth, but if you express your anger or Power in the male “Push Energy” way, she looks at you like, “What is he trying to express?”

So stop the cry baby stuff already! Sheesh and learn how to speak and communicate in this mentally stimulating and more emotionally fulfilling language that women love and understand.

Thus my course is called “LOVE and UNDERSTANDING!”

Ladies and Gentlemen, we are simply different, that is all. Now we finally have the answers to understanding, relating to and turning on the opposite sex in a way that they really, really like that leaves them feeling Whole, complete and very emotionally fulfilled and truly loved.

Paying for roses does not make a women feel Loved Emotionally at all.

So right now, Call Us and Come take our courses to learn how to Love a women with all your heart and soul so she can feel Loved in the way she needs!!!

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How he met the girl of his dreams!

I just wanted to say to everyone who has been involved with our courses here at MGK Enterprises and Crack the Female Code a New Discovery to bring Love and Understanding into your lives on all levels, Thank you very, very much for your input, your Goodness and your kindness!

I know the world is in a Dangerous place right now, but it will get better! We are at a very, very pivotal place in History and there is a Massive Shift in Consciousness that is coming! It will shift from the Selfish, Greedy brain and open more and more and more of us to our Consciousness, to our emotions and our heart!

Love & Understanding will reign supreme on earth one day soon!!!

Trust me, your thoughts create your reality! Think wonderful, beautiful thoughts as much as possible and good shall come to you!

Watch this video, it’s very empowering and will fill you with hope and goodness. And, within the first few minutes there is a very, very important teaching on how much more powerful the heart is than the brain:

A MESSAGE OF HOPE

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Understanding & Meeting women is easy once you know how!

Love to you all !!! May you find all the peace, happiness and Love you desire in your lives and hearts!

This is your Dating and Relationship coaching source for life!

How he met the girl of his dreams!

Congratulations Mark!!!

Dear Mike,

It has been almost a year since I took your course and I can’t even begin to tell you how my life has changed in that year.  I had always been one of those guys who did “ok” with women but never really understood what was happening or why.  Your course shed light on the female mind in a way that guys can understand and it has completely changed the way I relate to women.  I can now understand what is happening when I’m interacting with a woman in the moment as well as look back at previous interactions and understand why they went well or where I can improve.  The only way I can describe your course is as a TREMENDOUS learning experience.  It is about time that men take back the power in relationships and your course teaches exactly how.  I learned how to read a woman and then how to approach her based on that read.  If any guy is on the fence about taking your course I would say that their love life will only benefit.  In the past year I’ve been able to get dates almost at will, I’ve experienced a sexual abundance like never before as well as a deeper confidence in myself because now I have an understanding of my love life.  As many guys can imagine, becoming successful with women and dating can help blow through a lifetime of built up insecurities.  As a result of your course I never have to worry about getting a date, being alone and in addition I’ve been able to grow a lot as an individual.  Your course was unbelievable!  I would just like to say thank you for helping have one of the best years of my life. I’ve dated more women in the last 12 months than my entire life combined.

Sincerely,

Mark from San Francisco

Note from Mike Kollin: Mark has 2 Masters Degrees from U.C. Berkeley in Psychology and Communication, and is a highly intelligent Bay area-Professional working in the Therapy/Counseling Field working with Children and also Working in the Professional Securities Field.

Meeting cute women is easy!

Ok, does this title shock you? hahaha…

Author: Mike Kollin 415 456 8558
Dating and Relationship Expert

http://mikekollin.com

TODAY I AM GOING TO GIVE YOU SOME POWERFUL DATING,
RELATIONSHIP AND SEXUAL TIPS THAT MASSIVELY TURN WOMEN ON AND MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU!

Well, here’s the deal. The female mating system literally has the need to chase you! Women have something, that I call the Cat and Mouse game hard wired or built neurologically in them. And they can’t help it! hahahaha…

Have you ever heard women say, “Men need a Challenge?” hehe… See, nothing and I mean nothing could be further from the truth. If a hot girl comes up to us and wants to have sex, we are not going to turn her down!

So what’s really going on?

See, what women are doing is something we call in Psychology, “Projection”. And women do it a lot and that’s why men completely misunderstand women in every way! hahaha…

See, what’s going on, is she is hard wired to look for a challenge and once she finds a challenge, she will lock on like a pit-bull and will never let go and will even, literally fight to the death to keep that challenge.

Have you ever seen 2 girls fight to the death over a guy? That’s why? He was a massive challenge and the 2 girls will literally do anything to get him! And I mean anything!

So, do you want to learn how to get girls or women to do anything and I mean anything for you and to lock on to pleasing you like a Pit Bull locking on to a challenge? Even be willing to fight intensely for you and over you? hahaha…

Now here are some amazingly powerful secrets and tricks. And here’s the funny thing. If you don’t do these things, women will be bored with you and lose all respect for you. So, it’s your choice. You can either be the guy that girls cook and clean for and make wild passionate, erotic and kinky sex with and will do whatever it takes to please you, or you can be that guy who’s girl wouldn’t even think of fighting over let alone doing anything for you; who’s already looking for a better boyfriend who is a challenge, and is currently cheating on. Or you can Be That Guy all girls find to be a Challenge!

Well? Are you ready?

Be a Damn Challenge Already!

Ok, so what in the hell does that mean and how do I do that? hehe…

#1 Do not just give up sex to a girl.

A. She has to earn it. Yes, I am dead serious. She has to cook a meal or buy you gifts, give you a real massage, not some 5 minute stroke to get you turned on. NO!!! Screw that! Make her earn it. Yes, I am serious. Women innately do not respect men who are push overs or who will do anything for her to get sex or love or respect.

The truth! She must earn your respect. If she doesn’t earn your Love, attention, sex, then she see’s you as of low value. Get it?

Now I can hear all the low self esteem guys and social wimps whining and complaining right now. You think that if you are submissive to hear and buy her everything and do her bidding, she will suddenly love you and respect you and make wild passionate love to you! Well, I have 1 question for you? How well is that working for you? Well?

See, people with High Self Respect and who have boundaries and stand firm on those boundaries are the ones who get what they want out of life, including Love, Respect and sexual pleasure.

Now, I use to go to therapy and am highly involved in personal development. The reason I bring this up, is because every psychology class, teacher, therapist and personal development coach has a high focus on you having Healthy Boundaries and Self Respect.

So, is this a bad thing? Hell no! This is a very, very good thing and fortunately, it turns her on massively.

But, to guys who are use to playing the submissive role and buying her things and paying for stuff who don’t get sex or that rich millionaires wife who left him for me, cry and whine and go out and get 2 jobs so they can buy a nicer car and pay for more expensive dinners and gifts until they work themselves to the bone only to find out she has no respect for him!

We call these guys suckers! And so do women!

So stop being a weak sucker and stand your ground. Yes, you deserve respect and love and admiration and yes, sex! So many men think that women are Gods or something and can’t figure out why women don’t have sex with them or Love them! You have to Love yourself and stand firm on your boundaries and stop giving in so damn easily, make her earn it and prove to you that she deserves it!

When she comes over, ask her to pick you up something from the store. Ask her to massage your feet or back. Ask her to rent a Movie. Ask her to cook dinner for you. Or ask her to make a picnic and choose a spot to have lunch. She loves this.

Yeah, I can hear some of you already. You think this is wrong or bad. Wrong! Let me ask you a question. Do you do nice things for her? Does she ask you to pick up things on the way over to her place? Does she ask for massages and other things? What? You say yes? Well then what in the hell is wrong with her also doing nice things for you too? Well?

See, our society has raised women to expect men to do for them and men to just give and give and give and expect nothing in return! First of all women don’t respect this on a deep level and will lose attraction quickly. Another thing that wills shock most men is that when you first meet a girl, she usually will want to cook, clean and do things for you, but what do most modern men do.

They take way her joy! Yes, he will say things like, “Oh sweetie, you don’t have to do that for me.” Or, “Don’t worry, I will do the dishes later, you dont’ have to do that for me.” So what did you just do? You literally took away her joy, her pride to do for her man! You told her that you are not worthy and are a lower male who doesn’t deserve good things. Thus she gets sad inside because the man who she was proud of and wanted to look up to suddenly lowered himself in her eyes. Now she can’t show of her prize, her King, her Man to her girlfriends and sisters.

B. Now this one is huge, massive, extremely-dangerously powerful!

If you really like this girl and you are on your first date with her and possibly see her as a long term relationship, do not have sex! Yes, that’s right. See, if you have sex with her, she will lose all respect for you and suddenly lose all sexual or personal interest in you!

Now why is this? Well, what did I say above?

“WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR A CHALLENGE.”

So damn it, show her that you are worth it. Show her that you are not easy and not desperate! See, a guy who has dated a lot of women and can literally meet a new girl and lead her successfully into the bedroom for sex on a daily or at least weekly basis, suddenly doesn’t rush into having sex with a total stranger.

I’ll tell you why. Because over time, he has met his fair share of psycho women who are controlling or demanding or who flat out don’t respect him. And the kind of guy who has self respect doesn’t let women do this to him. So, he has learned there are a lot of games some women play. And if he has a lot of choice with women, he would never in a million years suddenly jump into bed with a girl who he doesn’t know.

Again, this is her “Projecting” her thoughts onto you! hahaha… Get it. See, this is the way that women think, not men!

See, by not having sex with her on the very first date or the first time you get her into an intimate situation, ie home alone at night, you are literally saying, “I don’t know you and you might be a pain in the ass or a bitch or a psycho or someone who is out for themselves and I am looking for a girl who values me.

C. Now this one is just as powerful as the one before.

So lets say you have gone on a date or 3 dates with her and maybe the 4th or 5th date, you do have sex. Ok, fine. Now what?

Now the next time you go out, bring your buddies and friends and literally enjoy everyone’s company. Don’t totally focus solely on her and make her the center of attention, because that shows that you don’t have a life and are lucky to have finally caught a girl let alone a quality girl. Get it, if you do this, it shows her you are of low value and can’t get other girls. And trust me, nothing is more of a sexual turn off than a guy going on and on and on about how Beautiful she is and paying for things, etc. etc.

Yeah, I know, you were just trying to honor her and show her how much you like her. Well my friend, if you were dealing with a guy, this would work magnificently, but unfortunately we are dealing with the female brain and the female mating system and it works much, much differently!

So, what you do is, go out, have a great time, bring her home and bring 1 or 2 or a group of your friends and hang out, watch a movie, etc. etc. Have fun with the group.

And then when everyone goes home, “DON’T Have sex with her! hahahahah.. This will massively, massively make her want to earn your sex and love you! Dont’ even make out with her.

What will drive her even more crazy, is go to bed and if she joins you, don’t’ have sex, nothing! hahahaha….

See, she is so used to guys chasing her and that is a major turn off! And now all of a sudden, you are barely showing any interest in her. This will shock her system and make her prove to you that she is worth it! That she is of high value and damn it, she is going to lock on like a Pit Bull and cook and clean and massage you and chase off all hte other girls and when you do finally have sex, she will do whatever it takes to show you that she is good in bed! hehehe… see, I told you this stuff was tricky! hahahaha…

D. Now after you have dated her for a few weeks and maybe had sex 2 times, continue to deny her sex…

E.. Now this one will shock the shit out of you. Now in the first month of dating, go out to clubs or invite friends over or out to clubs with you. Now remember, some of these friends are other females who are highly interested in you because you have read this blog before and have also denied them sex.

You bring these 2 or 3 girls all together at a club or your house party or your friends and watch the sparks fly! hahahahahaha…

Now here’s the deal. What you are showing her is that you have choice. And a man who has his choice of females is the guy who she wants to keep, marry and hold onto forever! Now this is what makes a marraige and relationship last and keeps her happy because she has captured her Hero, her Knight in Shining Armor.

God Bless you all! Best Wishes and may the Happiness and Love Flow in your lives and all relationships!

Understanding the opposite sex is possible once you know how!

Sincerely, Mike Kollin

Author: Mike Kollin 415 456 8558
Dating and Relationship Expert

http://mikekollin.com

Now, when you are communicating to someone and want them to see things in a certain light or in the way that you want them to see it, all you have to do is use what I call Directional Languaging. And it’s real simple. In fact, you use it every single time you talk or even think. So the question is how well or bad are you using it?

Here’s what you do.

#1 You think of what you want the person or people to think about and picture, feel and hear inside their head. Like Peace, Love, comfortable or buy this now or see yourself enjoying this thoroughly and understanding this teaching easily as it opens up!

Because the way people operate is unconsciously. 97% of the time or more we are completely and or totally unconscious. Yes, that is an actual fact. That’s another discussion though.

Even people who mediate and work on Consciousness are only conscious 15% of the time, maybe a little more depending on the person and how good they are at it. And they are merely conscious of what they are being conscious of in the moment. hahaha… And that is where this little hypnotic technique comes in. Watch how unconsciously conscious you have been using this your entire life and yet had no clue!

So, when I am talking to someone, I take them in the direction I want them to go or think/see/imagine in their head. And it’s super easy.

So if I am working with an Athlete and they are doing somethign wrong, odds are, it’s because a coach was using this in the bad way and was telling them what not to do…. Ugh! So bad!

Look coaches, don’t tell then what not to do, tell them what you want them to do, because the unconscious mind which runs our entire system, especially when in combat situations or fast paced sports, will do exactly whatever the image is you put into their mind.

Like in Wrestling, the worst thing you can tell a wrestler to do is “Don’t lift your arm!!!” So what does the wrestler automatically do? He lifts his damn arm and his oponnent grabs it and pins him!

So instead, you say, “Keep your arm tucked” or “Keep your arms down”.

Get it, it’s that simple.

So when I am talking to a girl, I say things like Safe, comfortable, warm, relaxed and fluid, etc.

What a lot of guys will do is think about not scaring this new girl he is on a date with… I have even heard guys say, “You are not afraid of me are you?” or, “You are not uptight are you?” Or “You’re not mad at me are you?”

See, in order for the girl to understand what he just said, she has to think nad picture what he just said. So words and images of Being Afraid of him go through her mind or Uptight, mad at him, etc.

See, do this. No matter what I say, absolutely do not thin of a “pink elephant!” hahaha…

So what do you have to think of in order to simply understand that sentence? Yep, a pink elephant.

#2 NEGATIONS – Now a Negations is exactly like the Pink Elephant story!

No matter what I say, don’t think of a Pink elephant. See, in order for your unconscious mind to understand the sentence, it has to think of a pink elephant. In fact, the unconscious mind can not process a negative.

So no matter what you say, the unconscious mind thinks of it or does it.
“Don’t lift up your arm!” The kid lifts up his arm.
“Don’t slow down.” The athlete slows down!

or heres a good one. “don’t’ feel bad!” hahaha… what are they immediately going to feel and imagine? Yep, feeling bad!

So when you say to a girl, “Do not feel comfortable with me now!” hehe… she has to imagine feeling comfortable with you now!

Or, here’s a good one…. Hey, hey, hey, this is not a sexual affair here! I don’t’ want you to see me and imagine me in a naturally sexual way that makes you feel totally and completely comfortable with me now!

hahaha… Get it, see it? I am using negations and saying or telling them what not to do, so they will do it and feel it and imagine it.

Look, I don’t want you to totally and completely grasp this and understand all of this right now as 1 simple little technique I am going over now. Because that would be way to easy to learn and understand and see how this works fully and completely! No, don’t do that!

How many times have you told someone what you don’t want them to do and they went right ahead and did the exact thing you told them not to do?

This works great for teachers who are teaching kids effective communication skills. And it works to turn women on or help them to feel calm, relaxed comfort with you, so they can calm down and melt into your arms and connect with you now!

See, the only difference between you and myself, is that I will purposely use a negation in a way that takes you in the direction that I want you to go in. And fortunately for you, that is a very good direction to go in to help you get everything and more of what you want like happiness, love, wealth, success and all the joy you can handle!

So don’t think that this very, very simple, easy and very powerfully effective tool will lead you into everything that you want inside! hehe… yes, I just did it… see how easy that was… all I did is put 1 single word in front of an entire sentence of everything I wanted you to do, think, picture, think, hear and even smell and taste if I wanted to… hahaha..

The negation word is “don’t” and all the directionalizing words are

very simple, easy, powerful, effective, lead you into everything you wanted,

Another way of saying this, is “Say it the way you want it, so they will picture in the way that you want them to see things!”

See, before I mentioned it, you were probably not imagining the smell of freshly toasted perfect cinnamon toast or even noticing how hungry your belly is and I bet you were not thinking of the back of your left elbow before I mentioned it.

My point, is this tool is extremely simple, but very, very powerful.

So next time you are in a situation and you want results in your direction, “say it the way you want it!”

Look honey, I am not saying that this is an easy and comfortable conversations at all… You might or you might not be able to comfortably come to an agreement with yourself and realize how all of a sudden a new world of possiblities just opened up to you, so you can gain all the clarity, power and undersanding you need to take these conversations in the direction that you really want them to go. because, that would be way to easy!

And you know what that means? If people would simply listen to understand each other all of a sudden they would see the light on how to communicate in a way that the other person easily and effortlessly enjoys and likes what they are saying….

So instead of telling that kid to not eat the cake, tell him how amazingly delicious this smoothy is and how it will make him feel powerful inside so he can lift 1000 pounds.

So instead of telling that 5 year old kindergartner not to touch the chalk board, tell him or her to focus on the space between their toes and how funny it is that their feet perfectly go together when walking without ever thinking about it. And trust me, that’s all they will notice or think about. The chalk board and not touching the chalk board will not even come to mind.

Now that’s unconscious!

Say either A. Say it the way you want it.

Or B. Say what you don’t want if you want them to do what you don’t want!

Ok, so I bet a few of you reading this now honestly are not completely clear on what you just learned unconsciously right?

Ok, fine. Now re read the main segment I put in part I.

All you say is, “Hey, it’s totally or completely ok if you don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying?” “All I ask, is that you actually listen to what I am saying, and understand what I am saying.” “As long as you listen to understand what i am saying and you actually understand what I am saying, then I am totally ok if you don’t agree with what I am saying or believe me.” “That’s totally cool.” “As long as we are on the same page and you understand me, then that’s all I ask!”

“If you understand what I am saying, then it’s totally cool if you still don’t agree with me or believe what I am saying, ok?”

NOW, HERE’S WHAT I REALLY JUST SAID AND IN HYPNOSIS TERMS, COMMANDED:

a. totally or completely ok.
b. agree with me
c. believe what I am saying
d. All I ask softens it
e. actually listen to what I am saying
f. understand what I am saying
g. actually understand what I am saying
h. totally ok
i. agree with what I am saying
j. believe me
k. That’s totally cool
l. we are on the same page
m. you understand me
n. that’s all I ask

o. understand what I am saying
p. it’s totally cool
q. agree with me
r. believe what I am saying
s. ok

(I am actually telling you this, rather your unconscious, I’m not asking at all, but with the negations above in the actual sentences, it sounds like I am merely suggesting it or politely asking. But in fact, I am telling you, commanding you what to do, think, believe, hear and feel) Yeah, devious huh? hahahaha… Ok, I am evil, a little bit, but I am really on your side… hahahaha…

Now next time you listen to Obama or your other fearless leaders, really listen to what they are saying. yes, they are all highly trained in Hypnosis and powerful influence technologies.

The only way you / we can take back this country is by learning this technology so when someone uses it on us, we can fight back!

Or we can use it to have a lot of fun and get more of what we want!
Hey, it’s your choice!

For the most powerful training in Communication, influence, Love and fun, give me a call: 415 456 8558

I will teach you what the Masters Refuse to teach you!

If you think this is powerful, I assure you, this is the simplest, easiest teaching out there. In my courses I will continually teach you what no one else will teach! I will pull the curtain back and show you what’s really going on and how to use it effectively!

I hope you enjoyed this little show here!

Now say it the way you want it!

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